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Well me and my two sisters, found out that my mom is forsure cheating on my dad...we all sat him down and talked to him and told him some parts of what we knew...we just didnt tell him that we know she slept with the other guy. My mom is still out with this other guy, my dads crushed and he's waiting outside for my mom to return...I don't know what to think about all this, My family has been through so much. My dad's mom passed away in may, my grandfather is putting our house up for sale next week, my boyfriend broke up with me two days before my grandmothers funeral, My dad's been working hard just to support all of us and were still barely just getting by, theres always so much fighting or people talking behind eachothers backs, and now this...all within two months. Does anyone have some kind words that might help lighten the whole situation for me? I'm afraid of how everything is going to turn out tonight when my mom get's home..it hurts knowing she betrayed our family...and lied to us so many times when we asked her about it. Please answer...
you know, theres nothing we can say that will completely fill the hole that all of this has caused. I am so so so sorry about all this, I really am. stuff like this isnt caused by you guys, it was your mom's decision to do what she did. as for your grandmother's passing away, I am also sorry for that.. I went through a lot when my grandad died after a long and painful 2 years of bouncing between rehabilitation centers and emergency rooms and being at home on a gurney. its very very very hard. when it comes to your boyfriend, I know its not really what you want to hear, but after all that happened, you should know that if he was a keeper, then he wouldnt have broken up with you around such a suckish time for you.if you need someone to talk to, I have myspace and facebook, but for some reason my fun mail doesnt work... myspace.com/smilehelovesyou or search taylor haywood on facebook... :)
well ik my dad cheated on my mom throughout there whole marriage! so ik how you feel! and apparently your mom is in denial about cheating! a lot of people dont want to admitt they have done something wrong because they know they could get in trouble for it! but I am glad you told your dad about it! I am very proud of you! your dad is hurting but im sure your mom and dad can talk it out! even if they start yelling or something! I would go into your room and turn on some music and read a book! lol but just try and stay calm! this is your parents problem not yours! and this is not any of your fault! dont feel guilty about telling your dad about your mom cheating! you did the right thing!
Well I'm sorry to hear about your grandmother and I'm sorry about your boyfriend and I'm especially sorry about your mom your probably angry at her for betraying your dad and you and your sis but even though the baddest thing happens there's always a brighter side I know a lot of things have happen but you have to forget all about the bad things and see all the good things like you always will have your dad no matter what now like me my dad passes away when I was 8 and I was barely getting to know him by phone( he lived in Mexico) now I know that deep inside he loves you and your sis a lot now If things don't work out just think about what you have
I have friends who have been in similar situations and I always tell them as bad as things get, it's not that bad. When it gets tough just remember you have a home, you have food.I know you say your family is struggling at this point to survive, so think of things that you can do to help out be proactive and always remember expect the worst but hope for the best. Be there for both your parents no matter what, like dekakr says you shouldn't feel guilty it is in no way your fault. Try talking to your mom some more maybe hopefully you can find out how shes feeling and where she is coming from.
I'm not introuble, my dad didn't want to except it but he had to know the truth instead of being played for a fool. my mom told my dad that shes undecided about who she wants to be with, so my dad is giving her some time to make up her mind and figure out what she wants. theyre still talking but theres a lot of tears and small fights about it. I can only hope things will turn out good for both of them
My advice is to pray to God. He has a plan even if we don't think so. Ask him for guidance and stability and what ever else you need. It isn't your fault she cheated it is hers she has to take responsibility God Bless I will pray for you.
my friend went throw that just when your mom gets home have you and your sissters out there for witnesses
I dont know...that sux I wanna hear what happend please post a reply to this tellin me what happend...
welll...
I will suggest that you should't told that to your father..
now you in trouble..
welll...
I will suggest that you should't told that to your father..
now you in trouble..
hire a private investigator
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