My mom says I did it to start an agrgument!

Hey my name is Rachel and iam 17 years old and I walked out of the house monday becouse my mom and I were fighting and I couldn't take it anymore my mom says Iam a runaway and she's making my life miserable as it is I can't stand living in this house anymore becouse my mom finds every little thing that I do to make my life hell like monday when I walked out and ended up going to my Aunt Grace's house for the night there was a shirt that belonged to me on a chair she says I put it there to just cause an agrgument and I said I didn't and she said I did and I think you know the rest of the story,but I ended up walking out of the house and to my Aunt Grace's house and now that iam back home I don't know how I can live in this house anymore Iam miserable here.what should I do?

I had the same problem as you once... and I know exactly how you feel. I dont want to tell you you're wrong but going to your aunt's house was not a good idea. that is somewhat running away from the problem. keep in mind your mum might be having problems of her own. I didnt realise until today that some of the things I do really worry my mum, thats why she used to end up screaming at me... not because she wanted to scold me but because she cared and was just angry. being the only person close to her (physically) she will take her anger out on you straight away which isnt correct becos you are her daughter and she should control her temper. try and talk to your mum, tell her you are sick of this (I advise you to take your aunt along with you so you have someone to support you). if she wont listen, then consult a councellor.

You're and adult and tensions between young adults and their parents is part of the normal process of seperating from them. The problems with your mom are an indication that it's time for you to make your own life, away from your parents.

I had the same problem growing up around my mom she was psychotic and still kind of is lol.I would always argue back with her and that satisfied her.I got REALLY tired of her childish ways when she would pick a fight with me about some stupid little thing I would just reply back sarcastically as if I didn't care!Like your mom accused you of leaving the shirt on the chair to cause an argument you should have said "yes,that's my goal in life to cause an argument with you every chance I get".I don't know if that helps you but I think it's pretty funny.