My mom and sister are backstabers

My mother makes no f*cking sense at all shes all ways telling me that I can trust her and tell her things but then yet she stabs me in the f*cking back when I told her I was bi she told my friend and my sister and who knows if she told any 1 else now I...

kinda didn't mind her telling my sis but telling my friend I mean really does she know if I want her too know or not no she doesn't and when I told her I was having sex she went and told my dad I don't want my dad knowing that kinda stuff about me if I did I would tell him so what should I do about my mom with out being mean 2 her and all so my sister does the same thing she tells my secrets and personal stuff about me 2 people what should I do with her 2 ?

the best thing to do is just not tell them.I know its hard but if they cant keep ther mouths shut they dont need to know. my mom and dad are the same way there betting on wether I turn bi/lesbian or not.

No doubt you're mom is probably in some sort of shocked state. It's sad nowadays, but nonetheless true. Our parents were raised differently than us.
Sit them down and talk to them. Tell your mom that you told her something in confidence and privacy and ask her why she felt the need to tell anyone else who had no business knowing. Maybe it's the only way she knows how to deal. Tell her that it upset you and that when you are ready and willing, you will tell other people on your own terms.
Just be honest with her and tell her that if you can't be sure she will not spread your business, then you will not divulge it to her.

That's sad when your parents do that, and mean it. my mom does that, it hurts but when she started doing that, I did everything in my power to A: prove her wrong, B: twist and turn everything she did to make it sound like a fool. that kpt her quiet after 3 weeks. that's my mom though.

lol she knows it don't like it shes just a butch at times and she don't seem 2 care it bothers me

I meant I don't like it and bi tch

best thing to do is try to ignore the stuff that ticks you off and find a GOOD friend you CAN talk to

it,s hard 2 do that when all my friends are back stabbers all so

I've been back stabbed SOOO many times that now I've just stopped sharing mi feeling with people,and letting my emotion show...The only thing I tlk to is my diary!!! Honestly I've been keeping this diary since I was about 11 soo for 4 years!! And I don't mind anymore because I don't think ANYONE cud Ever understand the type of person I am or how complex I could reallyy be...people only see what they want to see and you no what my only advice Is to purchase a diary/journal... I poor my WHOLE out in mi diary and I say anything and everything that I can't trust to tell anyone else cause you no what there is not 1 person on this earth that I can honestly say Is devoted to me and only me... And there's not anyone who I could call mi true friend because people theses days are jerks and playas and they don't stop to think of how there actions effect you!!! And I'm going threw a situation right at this moment where I'm feeling backstabbed,MIS-understood,lonely and miserable...I mean don't get me wrong I have tons of great frendz but there's not anyone that I feel reallyy knows me for me and no matter how popular I am or how many frendz I have I still feel lonely and pist at the world...soo yea getta diary and put all your real feelings in it! That's all I have to say=] it helped me a lot...

I understand you fully but I have tried the diary thing it,s just not me I would rather tell some 1 so I can feel comforted I guess there is all ways some 1 you can trust and for you it,s your diary for me I think it,s a total stranger why is that cause I don't know them who are they going 2 tell they don't know any 1 I know so I know it will be a secret between me and them and plus most of the strangers I tell forget after like a week any way lol when my friends are in need of telling some 1 a secret I have them come 2 me first off cause my memory's not 2 great so I will for get soon and second cause I want my friends 2 feel they can trust me and tell me every thing and have no secrets between me and them

I wish I cud trust sum one...but I've bin screwed over sooo many times that I've just learned to bottle up mi feelings...my diary is the ONLY way I express how I feel and altho I'm always happy and acting crazy and hyper its more then likely that I'm hiding sumthin and I just have no one to tlk!! I'm sick of being the one to lighten up every one else day while no one even cares enough to help me and try to figure out how I'm REALLY truly feeling...idkk I guess I'm just soo used to bein screwed over that I dont tell anyone ANYTHING...

I know exactly How you feel but thats why I tell a stranger they don't know you they can possibly help you and they wont tell any 1 thats why I talk 2 people online I have told total strangers secrets of mine that I have never and will never tell any one but I have told them and I know they wont tell and one so my secrets safe :D But Hey I'm the type of person that all so likes making people happy and is all ways happy but is mostly hiding stuff underneath my smile so I understand what your going threw so I you would like I can sort of be your diary who knows may be I can help I'm good at that