My mistake

hey...I feel soo depressed guys. this weekend I stayed with my boyfriend and on fri night we had a bit too much to drink! he was flirting with everysingle girl insight and just ignore me! hes quite religious and he wanted to wait till he was married to...

have sex..(im not a virgin) but we just had too much to drink and it just happened. the next day he didnt even talk to me, he cudnt even look at me. that night we went back to his place with 2 other friends to watcj movies and he ignored me completely he didnt even look at me once...when his friend wud talk to me he wud interupt as if to say pull me out of the conversation completely. so that noght I tried to talk to him about it and he told me he regrets sleeping with me and it was a mistake and he doesnt want it to happen again...we ended up having a little fight and then he got worried bcoz we didnt use protection (I know its irresponsible and im still beating up myself about it bt it just happened like that). he says he does care about me a lot but hes just being hot and cold, and I dont know what to say to him. I feel so guilty because I know its my fault I shud of said no and stopped the whole thing but I just got carried away, and now I just cry all the time. we went to church on sun and he just started crying...it hurts me to see him like this especially because I know its my fault. it feels like hes pushing me away..and I've started thinking that maybe im not good for him and he deserves better. I just dont know what to say to him. I want to let him know that im there for him and that we.ve gotta get thru this together. but it really hurt when he said it was a mistake. please please help me???

its not your fault, it takes two people for that to happen, thats awful how hes treating you.don't think you're not good enough for him, it sounds like he's not good enough for you if this is how he treats you. don't feel guilty its isnt your fault. he wanted it too or he wouldnt have gone through with it. I'm really sorry hes made you feel this way you dont deserve to

When a guy asks a girl to dance, it's his idea...however, when the girl says yes it becomes a shared responsibility. You weren't the only one having sex that night If he was so strong about holding out till marriage, HE would have stopped you...drinks or no drinks. This is no just your fault. Right now your main concern should be if you got pregnant that night, not his feelings. Should you not be pregnant, you might consider getting yourself on some sort of birth control, and moving on to someone new and more mature.

This was not just your mistake...it takes 2 !