How can I get over my ex dating my close mate?

Hey, I broke up with this girl a couple of months ago and I have never really been over her, and now she is dating a good mate of mine. To be honest, he is starting to really p*ss me off with it all. She has told that of late that she does like me in a relationship kinda way but she still likes my mate a bit. What should I do about this, do I just get over her or try and get her? Please help me out in anyway, any thoughts on this would help.

She's playing both of you to keep her options open.

Kick them both to the curb. You deserve better than a mate who would date your woman and a woman who would date your mate.

while she's going out with your mate respect that. but dont let that stop you from stealing her back. dont confront him, but just be sweet and that sort of thing, if you can pull off a good one, write a poem. just an example. if its going to hurt your mate tho, be careful. if you aren't getting anywhere, let it go. it's the best thing to do. best of luck wooing your fair lady.

How do you plan on getting her back when shes told you she doesnt like you in a relationship kind of way? So I guess getting her back would kind of be a problem! Dont be immature about her dating your mate..sometimes it happens, and we just have to accept it. Obviously shes not trying to p*ss you off...she just wasnt attracted to you in that way! Just leave them be!!