My man has not had sexual intercouse with me

Asked by pebbles8112 over 4 years ago, 10 answers.
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I have been dating this man since September 2003. I moved in with him in November 2003. I love him madly. So here is my question and maybe you can help. We have never had sexual intercouse. Its always been kissing hugging. Oral. And toys. Am I wrong for thinking something is wrong here? I love him but I am not sure what to do? any advice would be helpful.

Thank you

Barbara

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Answered by confused1 on Mar 04, 2004, 09:07PM
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He may be hiding an STD from you or maybe he just doesn't enjoy sexual intercourse...I think you need to sit down and talk to him about it

Answered by ashley200420052006 on Mar 06, 2004, 07:49PM
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I THINK HE IS HIDING SOMETHING FROM YOU SIT DOWN AND TALK TO HIM MAYBE HE GOT A STD OR SOMETHING AND JUST DONT want to GIVE IT TO you JUST TALK TO HIM

Answered by echo22 on Mar 13, 2004, 09:09PM
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my man and me have lived together for 4 months and have been dating for 2 years...we hug and kiss and mess around, but we havent had sex yet...did you ever think that he is a virgin and is just holding out?

Answered by echo22 on Mar 13, 2004, 09:09PM
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my man and me have lived together for 4 months and have been dating for 2 years...we hug and kiss and mess around, but we havent had sex yet...did you ever think that he is a virgin and is just holding out?

Answered by pebbles8112 on Mar 14, 2004, 07:10AM
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He isn't a virgin. He is 43 years old . I just don't know what the problem is. Oral is there. toys are there but actual penetration isn't

Answered by asausman0 on Apr 21, 2004, 02:24PM
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is he gay? if you have been with him and live with him there should be some intimacy going on. Have you questioned it at all? Maybe he respects you a whole lot.

Answered by pebbles8112 on Apr 23, 2004, 06:34AM
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No he isnt gay at least I dont think so..

I wish I had the answers

I do LOVE him madly.

And I want him more and more each day.

But it never goes further then oral and toys.

Answered by johnny on Feb 07, 2006, 11:08AM
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well he's freakin weird. I would be jumping all over you if we got naked and doing oral. why would he not? I would be asking him whats up with that. obviously he doesnt have an erection problem does he? a normal dude would have penetrated anything you let him . sorry to be so blunt