My lover boy and sex

my partner and I have lived together for 5 years and I have gone of sex, he then has to argue with me sayin its my fault when its not, I feel stressed and unloved by him because he never does anythin nice for me, and whenever I buy him somthing its never good enough or its the wrong one he says he shouldnt have to buy me anythin cause we have a joint bank account, and because I buy it for myself, but I think that isnt the point, but everytime he wants sex I say no he blows up and makes me more stressed can someone help me

I think the best thing for you would be to get out of the relationship right now - his verbal abuse will soon turn into physical abuse and I promise you that. Get out now while you can, for your own safety. If you don't your going to wish you did because you could end up damaged forever otherwise. There are many women who go through this who don't leave the male and end up raped, murdered, or just severely injured because the men eventually blow up so much it takes complete control of him.

boyfriends were invented so you can test out a person before you marry them (figurativly speaking) so obviously this test drive hasnt worked out, I would recommend working out your banking accounts and dividing all of you monetary accounts then ending the relationship. if you have doubts now then they will only get worse. find someone who respects that your body is yours and you dont HAVE to give it to him. good luck, I hope you are able to work this all out-