My lost love,how to get past the pain

Well I just found out the man that im in love with and have been pursueing is has fallen for and is dating another woman.down the drain went all my dreams and hopes of being together with him went down the drain my heart is broken and iam crushed it...

seems we have been compeitting for the same guy.now iguess you can say I have noe been feeling insecure about mysel and even comparing myself to this girl trying to find reasons he would pick her over me.I have been trying not to let it show that im hurt when im around him does anyone know some quick ways to heal from a broken heart and to get past these feelings and thoughts iam having.

it is very hard to get over this sort of thing. it is tough when you're heart has just been broken. don't try to compare yourself to the other girl. you can't help how you look, different guys go for different girls. maybe you could try and think of bad things about the man you love. it may take a while to get over it, you will eventually and, I can't really lie, it will probably be very hard but just keep in mind that you will get over it. I'm sure you will get to like another man and he will like you too. the man you loved must go for other types of girls but there is a man out there who will go for someone like you. don't get yourself down. feel proud of being you and don't compare you and the other woman as it will probably just make you more upset. if you need anymore help, feel free to funmail me. I will try my best to continue helping/giving advice. if you want to you can give me more information, which is completely up to you, as it may help me give you better advice. Remember you don't have to tell me if you don't feel comfortable with it, I won't mind and will still try to help you

don't hang around him anymore. he choose to breakup quit comparing yourself to her go out wit friends anything to keep your mind off him. you can find someone in the mean time work on being happy wit yourself so when a man comes he can be happy wit you too.

If you have just broken up, then you know just how bad it feels. Dealing with a breakup is one of the hardest time is a persons life. Usually we look for ways to heal a broken heart immediately. There are many ways of doing this, but at the same time, there are a lot of ways to make things even worse.

Most of the time when are heart is broken, our first reaction is to lay in bed and cry all day. This is actually a good thing to do BUT ONLY for a day or so. It's important not to fall into a depression. Falling into a depression will not only effect your relationship, but also you job, family, and friends. So the best way to heal a broken heart is to stay strong, and hold your head up high.

After the breakup, during the hard times, you need to focus on yourself. What do I mean by this? Take good care of yourself both physically and emotionally. Got to the gym to improve your health, hang out with old friends, spend more time on your hobbies or work, and finally, spend more time with your family.

Another good way to heal a broken heart and to start thinking whether or not you want your ex back. Look back at the memories you two shared together? If you miss them, then chances are you should try and get back with your ex. However, sometimes it's better to just move on and forget the past. If you want your ex back, the first step is to figure out why the relationship failed.