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How to stop my life from getting out of control?

Asked by lucky0u about 1 year ago, 3 answers.

I nneeddd help!!cutting myself..depression..anerxia...failing school...

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Answered by tigrah12 on Dec 19, 2007, 08:40PM
60 answers

you need to find out why your getting depressed, if you already know why then you have to find a way to cope with it or fix it. if it's something that you can't fix then you need to find a way to get you mind off it for a bit. maybe play a sport, or talk to a friend that's not involved in the situation and you trust, about what's going on. maybe there is something that you can do that will help you. just make sure that you know that starving and hurting yourself won't help. it will set your hormones rageing and you will feel even worse then before. another thing you could do is to get a hobby, maybe you could collect something that could entertain you, like hot weels or baseball cards. with the failing school thing, you should talk to your teachers to see if you can stay after class with them so they can help you, if it's because you don't get your work done then you should have a freind who is doing ok in school call you or come t your house every day to make sure that you undersand everything and to help you stay on top of your work.

im not all that good at giving advice, but I have known some people who have gone through a rough time like you. they all say things lke this help a lot. they also say that the last thing that would help is hurting yourself in any way. just remember that this is just one part of your life, it won't always be like this unless you make it that way by doing something stupid like drugs to help you at that moment, it will turn the rest of your life upside down and you will have to work twice as hard to get it right again.

hope this helps! good luck!

Answered by funadvice on Dec 19, 2007, 08:47PM
53910 answers

=D thx
but the problem is my mom...shes just so...UGH!!! how do I get rid of her?

Answered by ash23 on Dec 19, 2007, 09:35PM
659 answers

All of these things are extremely dangerous to your physical self.. and are not healthy.. (obviously these things are leading to you failing in school)..

Please seek help right away. Talk to a parent or adult you trust... you do need professional help. Even talking to your doctor would be good too- They can help you get what you need.

There are also help lines you can call such as this one:
http://teenlineonline.org/content/view/32/71/

Please talk to someone right away.