Should i be so scared of losing my virginity

Should I be so scared of losing my virginity and how do I know if im ready to or not should I wait for love or does it matter if I lust... =)

Lust is sin - definitely the wrong thing.

personally, I would wait for love. I made the mistake of doing it from lust..and I dident think much of it then, but I regret it now. when you finally end up doing it, you too will relize that the thing that makes it feel so good is the connection and love between 2 people. thats my opinion, but if your not sure if your ready or not, it usually means that your not. good luck tho on making the right desicion for you. just remember you only get to lose your virginity once, so maybe it should be saved for that special someone its a special thing!

If there are things that you want to do in life, like travel or go to college, it is best to not risk pregancy.
Hold onto it, it'll make you special because of all the other people that are no longer virgins.

well, I cant really say if you should be scared to lose it, because it depends on each person. if you believe you're ready then you can either wait, and find someone you think you're beginning to fall in love with. or if you want to rush it, then I guess you'd follow your lust.

when I lost my virginity, I thought I was in love and things were alright. just until months and months later things started to not work out. but if you dont want to wait to find love, then try to wait until you can find someone worth giving it up to.

It's all about trust and the boy you give it to,you can't give it to any random boy,you will want it to be special,the way you'll know it is you have REAL love towards him and he does for you as well. You'll know when your ready,nobody can predict your first time.

My advice is to please wait ! I wish I had. I SO regret not waiting and the minute I made the decision (love, lust, whatever - as if I knew the difference when I was that young), I instantly regretted losing my innocence because once you've lost it, it's gone forever. So you will never have again if you ever change your mind and want to have loftier goals like saving whole self for marriage. I ended up feeling used (even though at the time, I thought it was love) and I was mad at myself and like I just threw away something I could NEVER get back! It was awful. It's not worth it just for a few minutes of giving in to the pleasure. Please, please wait, even if people call you old fashioned or whatever. Who cares? The important thing is that you'll have that treasure until the absolute perfect moment and you won't have tossed it aside like trash. Trust me, you will be glad you waited. I wish I had.

I would really wait and only you can tell if you are ready or not do not let someone else tell you that you are ready.I believe for the fact that you are even asking this question you are really scared and unsure. When it is time to happen it will just happen, there will be no need to ask anyone anything because it will be something you know is right to do no matter what. Just think wisely about the situation is the person worth loosing your virginity too only you know hope this helps.just out of curiosity how old are you anyway?

wait until you're inlove, when your inlove it will feel right... even better wait until you get married

Why dont you try putting your REAL age! I dont think an almost 30 yr old woman would be scared to lose her virginity, IF shes even still one!

The fact that you have to ask if your ready, and you want to know if its ok to just be in lust, clearly means you are WAYY too young, and NOT ready...Not even close!!!