My husbands in jail I understand everything your going through.xxx

This isnt a question its a cry for some one who feels the same way about their lad the way I do,I'm 18 years old from south shields in England My husbands name is Michael he's known as MICKY K he's always been a BAD-BOY and I love him for it, Well at least I did untill last November when I got pregnant and he found out he was going back to jail, he went back to jail on 2nd of January 2006 its his fourth time so its nothing new to him, He's been inside the whole time of my pregancy which is bad enough, our daughter Kelis was born on the 14th August this year she's now 7 weeks old and its really hurting me that we cant all be together I've got no photo's of them together or anything, I wouldn't even bother asking anyone what they think I should do cause at the end of the day theres nothing I can do apart from sit and wait for my baby untill he gets out and be with him every step of the way, every girl loves a bad-boy who will look after them but thats it now he cant step a foot out of line and risk losing me and our daughter again because I dont ever want to feel the I'm feeling right now ever again in my whole entire life, I love Michael with all my heart theres no one in this whole world like him he's looking at a really long time but I dont care I've had my life on hold since day one and I continue it that way it keeps me going knowing that I've got the most special person in the world waiting at the end of it, At the end of the day its out of my hands if I could do the sentence for him then I would, I know you cant see this Michael but me and Kelis really love you baby and you know this, love you, love you, love you, love you all my love and kisses and cuddles your little angel Charlotte and little princess Kelis x xx x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x P.S does any one else feel like me???

Lots of people have had similar experiences, you are not the only one to go through difficult times while their partner is in jail. I think this time alone with your baby is a good time to think really hard about what type of life you want to make with your new baby and boyfriend.

You said that you like the bad-boy but it seems that you are now realising the true price of falling for a man that goes to prison for over 9 months. Maybe it's time to re-evaluate what you need for you and your baby girl as well as what you need from him. You will have to tell him what you need. If you want him to go straight, then both of you and him must talk about how to keep him out of trouble. You are going to eventualy have to tell him that you love him the most but you can't have him going to jail all the time because it's just to damn hard on you, the baby and your heart. This is not an impossible situation but he has to want to make these changes in himself and for himself as well as his new family. If he's smart, he'll stop the bad-boy act and take care of his family therefore becoming a man.
Good luck!

There isn't a single full stop in that entire paragraph.

Your right brian...Thats one hell of a long sentence!

Honestly I think this is part of the problem with the whole "bad boy" syndrome. Now you're stuck raising a child on your own with a man who STILL can't be there because of choices he made. It's essentially the same as a father who's walked out on mother and child, this man made the choice to assult someone and is now doing his punishment for the crime. He could have not assulted anyone and been there to se his child be born and to see her grow up.

I know you didn't ask for advice, but mine is to move on to a man who WILL love you and your child enough to make the correct choices in all of your lives. It's not fair to anyone to raise a child with a convict when he did make choices to land him where he is. If this was his first offense... ok we all make mistakes, but his 4th ? Honey what are you going to do when he gets his last strike and spend the rest of his life in jail ?

Hmm...well I'm 17 & the guy that I was dating when to jail..and hes 21 and hes in there for missing probation 2x which is soo stupid...its not like he did drugs to mess it up. But anyways...well you have a baby girl to put before you and your boyfriend..bc we all know kids go before anyone...soo I mean if hes going to change then yeah be with him & wait for him...and do what you got to do to get youre mind of him...I mean your baby girl is party of your boyfriend..so you'll always have a part of your boy with you everyday....how long is he in there for? write backk.

Hi... I do. I fell in love with the man I'm going to marry just after Christmas. I knew he was a bad-boy from the gate, he never led me blind! It turned me on more, if anything. HE's been OUT of jail maybe 3 out of the past 16 years of his life, so his going back one month ago was really no surprise to either of us. He is 28 and I am 29. I'll be 30 5-07. He really has never loved any woman at all as he does me, and by knowing him and his family, I beleive it. So, this is going to be very hard time for him to do. They stuck him with burglary so he'll get a parole violation and then 1 year in the Pen here in California. I just want to die sometimes, I miss the man so terribly. I am falling more and more in love with him the longer he's away. He begs me to never leave him, and to marry him while he's in there. I didn't even think twice to say yes and wait for him because he's the man I'm going to grow old with..Kennedy, hope you don't mind if I copy your announcement style..it was really cute!! Write back anytime if you want.. you remind me of me
****"FROG," MY ANSWER IS YES!!!!! THANKS FOR THE GORGEOUS RING. I LOVE YOU, SWEETPEA. EVERMORE............I'll be right here waiting for you.******

Laci

yes I have a similar situation, I've been with this guy for a while and I knew right from the start he was a "bad boy" and that I shouldnt get into that but I couldnt help thinking the bad boy attitude as a turn on. He has a felony and sold drugs and sh*t and now he just got in trouble again. He had 5 court dates already and another in january. Every court date I was nervous and praying. so hopefully all goes good for him, you, and your family!