My husband and I can't seem to get along anymore !

I am not going to hold anything back. I am going to tell all because I need the truth what others think.
I was an adult entertainer when I meet my husband 4 years ago. I work at a strip club for 3 years up till I meet him and never once did I ever think about going home with someone or bringing home someone from that club untill I meet him. The minute I saw him I just knew I wanted him. He came home with me that night me being 20 and him being 18. I had never dated someone younger than me ever. But I just knew I wanted him for ever after the first night.
Four months later I found out I was pregnant and it all started there. We was not really total crazy about each other yet. So I told him the night I found out I was pregnant that because he was so young that he didn't have to have anything to do with me or the baby if he didn't want to. He said he did, so we stayed together.
As time went by I notice that he was always gone and when he was home we faught all the time. He hated me I could see it in his eyes.
After my daughter was born in 05 I just knew her little face would change everything but it didn't he still stayed gone all the time. I left him for the first time when she was about 3 months old. But five months later we were back together he said everything would chance he promised.. It didn't !
I am at the point now to were some times I don't even want to look at him cause I hate him so bad. I have also told him this.
I do not have a D.L. (I'v just never had one) so I do not have a job, so I do not have any money or no way to go if I needed to. So I am always stuck at the house with my daughter.
Just about a week ago he sold his car and turned around and got a jet ski. So he came up to me tonight and said this is the plan I am going to the lake tomorrow with my friends and we can do something saturday. so he is telling his family I don't want to be with you for the 4th but the 5th. I don't know how much more I can take. I want to be with someone who wants to be with me. I love him so much and it is very hard to leave him. I don't know what to do anymore

Wow!
Are you serouis?! He's a jerk!! Leave him. That's it.. You can find someone so much better I mean I look at my dad and I think that ANY father would be so excited and happy to go see his little daughter and his wife rather then go out with his friends. Trust me! He's acting werid and leaving you with your daugther like I bet you one day she will forget she even has a dad. You can find so much better your still young and you can find other guys out there that will love you so much better than this man. I mean, why couldn't he have sold the car and gave you the money for your daughter and for yourself? Wow. He seems immature! I'm 14 and even I see that... I'm so mad! You deserve WAY better and I think anyone here will agree with me!

im sorry to tell you this, but from what you've said, he doesn't love you or the baby as he should
hes staying with you two to be responsible, but its all an act
seriously, so whats right for you and the baby and get rid of him!
After a while you'll feel better about yourself and it will provide a better environment for the baby
also, you can find someone worth your time down the road
my advice is to get a job and support her on your own (of course with some child support from the father)
you can do anything you want as long as you work hard for it
please leave him, for the well being of you and your child
good luck, if you need anymore advice, funmail me

Kick him to the curb. He's an unfit parent, so he can't have custody, child support offers a source of income, at least enough to take care of your daughter. Worst-case scenario, if it instills any fear, put a restraining order on him. As far as work goes, you can always babysit for money. Babysitters/Nannies make good money.

It's a rough situation your in, I hope everything works out well. One of you needs to go though, this is unhealthy for both you and your daughter, and your daughter should be the prime concern of both of you.

Good luck.

This is why people talk to the people before the take them home...not to be mean or anything personal to you...even thought I am only 13 I know the difference from a good guy and a bad guy

and I do have the same problem, I dated this guy, then we broke up. Sometimes I hate him cause he's acting like a di*k, then the next day I'm in love with him because he's so sweet

Next time you meet a guy, personally, I'd see how he's like first, then flirt, then start to show you care, then hug, then kiss, then open mouth kiss, then sex...thanks to health class!

Hopefully everything works out...and just do what your heart says, not your head...xoxox

At what point in this did you get married? Just curious because you didn't mention a wedding or anything.