Why isn't my husband interested in sex?

MY HUSBAND AND I HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR THREE YEARS. HE IS NEVER IN THE MOOD TO BE INTIMATE WITH ME HE ALWAYS MAKES EXCUSES UP. IF ALL GOES WELL, WE MAKE LOVE ONCE A WEEK. BUT I DON'T FEEL WE GET INVOLVED IN LOVE MAKING LIKE WE USE TO.. IS THIS NORMAL

Something is definitely bothering him. I wouldn't jump to any conlcusions but rather ask him about it directly.

You know, married for three years and assuming that you were together for a year or two at least before that--some people are quite comfy only having sex once a week. Being settled into a married lifestyle, your husband may just feel content.

But like I said, let's not jump to any conclusions at all. But it's time to talk seriously. No making side comments or complaining or nagging. Sit down and tell your man that you really enjoy sex with him and would like it once a week and that you want to know how he feels about only having it once. He'll be straight with you.

Sounds like my life when my boyfriend didn't act interested in having sex with me anymore except maybe once a month. Your guy could be wacking off to porn like mine was besides wanting to have sex with me. Sit down and talk to your husband. That's what I had to do with my boyfriend to find out what was really going on.

I would ask him if anythings wrong. he might just not be in the mood because of work/ stress.
if thats not it, get creative! try something new, like dressing up and role playing. or start by giving him head. make sure that you're confident in yourself..
or surprise him-
send him a dirty letter to work... naked pictures of yourself, or a little hint of what you'll do for him when he gets home. or send him an outfit to come home wearing.
think of your sexiest fantasy and make it real... set it up for him to come home to

good luck and have fun!