My handsome married coworker if flirting with me

I have a very handsome coworker who appears happily married with 3 children, but over the past several months has been winking at me, smiling, gives me occasional hugs, complements me on how beautiful I look, and has been asking me what my plans are for the weekends. he started doing this after finding out I do not have a current boyfriend. He did this by asking me at a holiday party last year as to where my boyfriend was in front of his wife, and I had to tell them that I did not have a boyfriend. I am attracted to him, I do think of him a lot, but I know it is wrong to get involved with a married person. is he really interested in me or is he palying me???

Well...just because he appears to be "happily married" really doesn't mean that he is. He could be "testing the waters" to see if you're receptive to him or he could just be a natural flirt. I would say though that he is probably interested since you said it just started. However just because he seems interested doesn't mean that you should follow through. Most married men that act this way are only looking for a piece on the side and they normally will not give up their happy little life with the wife and kids. Stay away from him, this is a situation that you really don't want to get mixed up in.

I would stay away from him. If he is going after you while married, it only shows his respect for women. He may just try and sleep with you and thats it. It isn't good unless he is going to divorce his wife or something like that.

He could be playing you, like trying to use you for something...if he's interested in you, then he'll tell you or invite you to dinner or something or he'd dump his wife.

it all depends, I guess ud nvr really know unless you went sum where with him or tlkd to him about it because mabey he wants alil sumthin on the side or mabey he's really interestd people devorce all the time these days so you nvr know unless you try right =]

Why even go there? He is married, and thats all you need to know! Married men are OFF LIMITS no matter how they behave! You have to keep things in perspective. Your going to have many crushes in your life, but you dont go acting on every feeling.

***is he really interested in me or is he palying me???***

THAT IS IRRELEVANT. Either way, there's nothing positive about it. He's married, so he's off limits. If he IS trying to get you on the side, then he's a low-life. And if that's the case, what's wrong with YOU for being attracted to a low-life?

He is already married and has three kids. You could cause a divorce and if they are already heading that way you shouldn't make it any worse. Stay away from him. And if you think about it if you ever did get in a relationship with this guy he could start flirting with someone else.