What if my guy friend told me he loves me?

BACK IN APRIL ON SPRING BREAK ME,& MY BEST FRIEND WENT TO SEE A MOVIE &OUR FRIEND STOPPED IN TO SEE US BEFORE HE WENT TO WORK.& WE HUNG AT THE MALL FOR A LITTLE BIT & YEA.I KISSED HIM ON THE CHEEK LIKE A GOODBYE KISS.ANYWAY I KNOW HE USED TO LIKE ME SO I SENT HIM A TXT MESSAGE ON MY phone HE WAS LIKE NO "I LOVE YOU" WELL THATS NOT THE PROBLEM.THE PROBLEM IS IS THAT HE HAD A GIRLFRIEND,HE TOLD ME NOT TO TELL HER,I DIDNT CAUSE I DONT TALK TO HER ANYWAY THIS KEPT GOING ON & MY FRIEND TOLD ME TO just FORGET ABOUT HIM because HE CANT POSSIBLY LOVE YOU IF HE STILL HAS A GIRLFRIEND THATS NOT YOU.SO I DID FORGET ABOUT HIM FOR LIKE A MONTH OR SO. UNTILL... THE DAY I SAW HIM AGAIN..EVERYTHING CAME BACK.FEELINGS,MEMORYS,FRUSTRATIONS,
TILL THIS DAY HE IS STILL WITH HER &STILL TELLING ME I LOVE YOU

HELP..
P.S.I DO LOVE THIS KID BACK.I DONT CARE HOW OLD I AM LOVE IS DIFFERENT FOR EVRYBODY.

Some boys like to love to girls.

Well, I really don't know what to tell you but if you love him back tell him. He might leave his current girlfriend for you! You never know until you try.

thanks but he already knows how I feel about him,even though he drives me crazy.I NeVER stop thinking about him

If you want to keep driving yourself crazy over someone who doesnt return your feelings, then by all means, go for it! Love isnt love until its returned!

bite me, he does love her b//c this is her bestie. duh she has txtmess.from him notes & he told her in person.

Well, if he really did "love" her xxxlostxxx, then why isnt he with her? ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS in case you havent heard that saying!

What do you tell people? I "love" this boy, and he SAYS he "loves" me, but he has a girlfriend!

What are you not getting? He already knows how you feel about him, and he hasnt done anything about it. Hes STILL with his girlfriend...so I dont know how you can even think he "loves" you? He obviously doesnt know what love is, or he wouldnt be throwing that word around!

You need to get over this ONE-SIDED little crush, because hes made his choice, and it looks like hes sticking with her!

FCK you he wont leave his girlfriend because they have a kid.so mmmhhh k

You need to stop with the profanity brokenxxx^^^. Not too mature!!

If he has a girlfriend, and a child, what is he doing going around telling another girl he "loves" her? Every girl would fight to be with a player like him. C'mon, this guy is messing with your head, and your falling for it. Do you realize how many married men tell their mistress' that they "love" them? a lot!! But the mistress is usually the one left standing alone!!

Here's a list of things a guy does when he DOESNT love you:

*he doesn't treat you like you're a top priority in his life
*he's nice to you mainly when it's convenient for him (like right before sex)
*he checks out on you emotionally for long periods of time, and acts like you're crazy and/or needy for wondering why
*he's openly critical of fundamental things about you that you can't change
*he seems to enjoy your company, but it's as though he hasn't decided that you're the special woman in his life
*he shuts you out of big parts of his real world and inner life
*he keeps telling you that he's not good relationship material, but he doesn't discourage you from sleeping with him
*he takes no emotional risks for you, but doesn't object when you take emotional risks for him
*he gets irritated with the vulnerability you feel in the relationship
*he rewards you for being "strong" and/or "understanding" when he does things that he knows hurt you

^Now you tell me if he really means what he says^ (But then again, what do I know. Im not 15, and naive)

ok well bite me

Truth hurts doesnt it? Being naive, and vulnerable will get you in trouble EVERYTIME!!

well Im NOT naive.

Well, then you need to open up your eyes, because guys will say ANTHING to get what they want!

dude there is nothing like that going on

Why are you two fighting over this? Ok if he is your friend then he probably just said that he loves you in a FRIEND way! Guys tell me all the time that they love me when their in relationships and I don't go all spaztic and think that he 'really' does love me. If he has a kid and and a girlfriend then chances are that he DOESN'T love you more than a friend.
So every-time a guy friend says he loves you, your going to post a advice question and say that he really does love you? HA. You really need to grow-up and take this maturally and stop acting like the 11 year old that you look like. And don't go tell your 'bestie' xxxlostxxx about me saying this because she is probably just like you. Not as bad though.

mmh I dont look like im 11...ok you know what just nvr mind..ill stick to asking my real friends who know both me& him.& it doesnt really matter if I tell her because she's going to read it anyway mmmhhh

Why can't you figure this out by yourself? HA your going to your friends my azz. You probably don't have any friends besides that one 'lost' girl and she is just as ugly as you. And why are you chickening out and say, "you know what just nvr mind.. ill stick to asking my real friends who know both me& him. Once again GROW UP!!!
God people are SOOO imature these days.

there is not pictures of "lost"...hmm..& im aint chickening out im tired of all the bull sht...because nun of ya'll know the real fcking situation so why dont you take your "model" @ss & do the cambell walk and leave!

ok w/e and if you say none of us know the real fking situation then why did you post a ? about in on here? your just scrwing yourself over you know that?
and just because I am a model doesnt mean you have to go all spaztic AGAIN and tell me to do a 'cambell' walk and leave!
oh yea.. are you so ashamed of your face that you have to put BARBIES face as your pic?
your just a messed up little girl

you have to have adriana lima as your picture & obviously you cant read because it says sweetie your so fake you make barbie look real...
o00o0 whatcha do about that..

ok if that was adrianna lima... people say we look alike so thats how I got into modeling.. you dont got to be jealous!!! and who the fu*k are you trying to get into me and that 1 girls argument?? this doesnt concern you so FU*K OFF!!!