My girlfriends best friend hates me... help

my girlfriends best friend hates me... and she hates me for no reason... before I met my girlfriend.. I met her best friend at lunch... she sat with another girl whom I already knew.. so I sat down and tried to make friends.. I would crakc jokes and try to be funny... at the time... I was slightly attrackted to my girfriends best friend.. again this was before I met my girlfriend... I asked her friend if she would like to get to know me and that I was attracktedto her... then I met my girlfriend (whom I believe is the girl I will be spending the rest of my life with) and I fell in love with ehr instantly... however... I didnt know at the rtime that these two were friends... now they fight because of me... my girlfriend's best friend hates me because I 'took her best friend away from her'... and my girlfriend doesnt hang out with her as much anymore.. one becuase they are constantly fighting... in the begining.. I thought it was just one of those things where best friends fight... but that was 6 monthes ago.. and they are still fighting... throughout these 6 monthes.. I have tried multiple times to try and be her friend.. but she seems to only take it into considerstion.. and then shoves it back in my face...

now my girlfriend and her friends aren't talking to each other.. and her friend still hates me... what should I do??

thnax for the help and putting up with this long ass question...

the best friend might just be pissed off because you got with her friend insaed of her so just worry about keeping your girlfriend happy after all she is the one that counts isnt she??? Also if it ment to be the friends will come around...I ahve been with my boyfriend for 5 years and my friends were always pissed off because for once I found the man that I loved and wanted to be with it took us almost two years to reconnect with my friends then when I asked what the problem was it was just that we had spent so much time together then he came along and I wanted to spend all my time with him to make our relationship work ... So it just takes time they will come around if they were truly her friends to begin with

the best friend might just be pissed off because you got with her friend insaed of her so just worry about keeping your girlfriend happy after all she is the one that counts isnt she??? Also if it ment to be the friends will come around...I ahve been with my boyfriend for 5 years and my friends were always pissed off because for once I found the man that I loved and wanted to be with it took us almost two years to reconnect with my friends then when I asked what the problem was it was just that we had spent so much time together then he came along and I wanted to spend all my time with him to make our relationship work ... So it just takes time they will come around if they were truly her friends to begin with

she hates you because you got with her friend. girls are INSANELY jealous! just dont be around her and if she says anything tell her to mind her own damn business.

and by the way, youre only 16. I dont want to burst anyones bubble but everyone at that age or around 18 think they will spend the rest of their life with their mate. you're barely getting into adulthood. trust me. if it does, thats cool too. whatever makes you happy.

You never, ever want to come between two best friends- it will only end badly. I'm surprised your girlfriend is choosing you over her best friend, because friends usually outlast relationships, but I suppose if you're thinking she is the 'One' then it could work. However, you have to talk to your girlfriend. Tell her how you don't want to be keeping her from having her own life, you guys both need to have your seperate time with seperate friends sometimes. Her friend is feeling something very normal, of COURSE she's going to be jealous of you because before you, most of her time was spent with your girlfriend, HER best friend! But, you don't have much control over the situation, your girlfriend is the one in between you two and she has the power to make it right. Show her she doesn't have to choose between you two, you need some time with your guy buddies alone as well. Absence makes the heart grow fonder, right? So give her some more time with her best friend, and try your best to tell the best friend you don't want her to feel how she does. But if this continues, it's likely that it will end in a breakup because this kind of tension can't be good for a relationship. Good Luck

my girlfriend chose me over her best friend and there still friends but not best friends so in time it will work.

Well I know how your girlfriends best friend feels because I'm going through the same thing. You should try and talk to your girls friend and ask her what's wrong maybe she feels left out because you took her best friend away and if you want to make things better invite her friend along when you go places with other friends so she doesn't feel left out and tell your girl she should hang out with her friend more often because you don't want to be the reason that they lost their friendship

Ok, I totally know this situation. When my boyfriend and I got together my best friend got really protective. Her excuse was that she wanted to protect me. And because in a lot of ways the boyfriend is usually approved by the best friend, its definitely possible shes abusing her power about it. My best friend did, she didn't at all talk to me about it but she was just being a beeotch about it and one day we finally had it out and we ended our friendship because she was jealous and overprotective. I'm not saying break up with your girlfriend or tell your girlfriend not to be friends with her but your girlfriend and her friend need to have a talk and you should stay out of it if possible, usually its between the the girlfriend and the best friend. Even talk to her friend and see what's up.

Hope this helps!

Ok well the same situation happened with me and my new b/f.We knew eachother for 12 years and my bst friend moved to new york from CT and she liked my best guy friend.He didnt like her a lot like he liked me.She got jealous of me and fought back.I didnt do anything,he just liked me.She always got mad,but this other new kid,just came this year, and she's in love with him.He likes her too,so eventually she foudn somebody she liked!

My point is that there is no use fighting over you,her ex-bffl will eventually find sumone she likes better than she lieks you.

ok so I dont think any one has said this one yet but, the girl was like o he likes me =D and then you went for her bst frnd after saying you had feelings for her, and its sortof like, um, you said you liked ME???not her so bahha I dunno but all good!!xxx

OMG SAME HERE! All my friends hated my boyfriend and then they hated him even more when he dumped me over the phone!

So if they don't like you, it's their loss. Cause they might miss out on having a good friend in the future!

Hope this helps!

It's not your fault if your girlfriend's friends don't like you. Because first of all, what did you do wrong? Is meeting a girl that you love so much, and want to spend the rest of your days with, so wrong? It's not your fault that you fell in love. This girl is just jealous, and hatin. If that's the way she's going to act around your girlfriend, then they obviously don't deserve to be friends at all. Because friend's should be happy for each other. But she obviously doesn't understand that. So, you shouldn't have to care. If this girl is truly best friend's with your girlfriend, then she should be the one to say sorry.

I would first try to get them back together. if that dosent work (so srry) and you just want your girl friend to be happy then I would break up with her. when I had a boyfriend everything within my friends just fell apart but now sencei broke up with him everything is fine. Or it might be just her friend thinks that sence you liked her first you should be hers not her best friends. try it it all might work. you will gane 2 friends and your girlfriend will gane an old beat friend.

the best friends just being jelous. forget them.
if they were a real best friend they would see that your girlfriend is happy and try be friends wit you even if they thought you were a di*k.

not worth it

SHE IS SOOO FEELING YOU!!!