My girlfriend wont go down on me.

My girlfriend and a I have been dating for about 6 months. shortly before I met her, she had a fling with this guy, and though she claims to have never had any real feelings for him, she got drunk one night and went down on him twice. early in our...

relationship I mentioned that I would like her to go down on me, I didnt make her or get mad, I just mentioned that it would be nice. I have gone down on her before and she used to hate it, but I told her to give me a chance and that maybe she would like it. she told me that she enjoyed it, and wouldnt mind me doing it again if I wanted to, but if I didnt want to then she would be ok with that and she said that the sex was more than enough for her. im not a big fan of going down on girls but I love my girlfriend and wanted to do something that is solely for her pleasure, and I thought that it might make her less nervous about going down on me. shortly after this she began to tell me that she was working herself up to going down on me. her parents were going to be gone for a week so I was going to spend the weekend at her place, for the 2 weeks leading up to the friday I was going over, she built up that she was ready to go down on me almost excited about it, naturally I was about it too. when the day came all we did was have sex, that night I asked her what happened to her preparedness, she said that she had forgotten but that she would do it the next night, so I dropped the subject. next day was the same, nothing. I asked her again and she said that once again she had forgotten, and that the next time we had a chance she would. this was a couple of months ago. and it was kind of a dead subject until recently, when I mentioned it again. then the other night she was drunk and I was in a meeting, and she sent me a text message reading hurry up I want to give you head. I got out of the meeting picked her up to come spend the night at my place, and when we got there we got into bed and she kissed me and said good night and went to sleep. when I showed her the text message the next day she said that she would have if she hadnt been so tired but that if she got drunk enough at our party that weekend that she would. at the party we were dancing, and she told me that she wanted to give me head, I said I wasnt sure if I would let her do it drunk, because she wouldnt be doing it becuase she wanted to, she would be doing only because she was drunk enough. her reply was I dont care, im going to tie you to the head board so you cant stop me. to me it sounded like she was serious. once again after the party though, we got back to my place, and she fell asleep as soon as we were in bed. I am starting to get mad. she is just teasing me, getting me worked up about it then deciding not to do it. it would be different if she wasnt bringing it up and telling me she will and then not doing it. also I feel like what is different between me and the fling, why was he good enough or hot enough or whatever that she OFFERED to do it and she wont do it for me. she always has an excuse for why she didnt, like I was tired, what if im bad, I forgot, and its gross. I cant remind her because I will feel like im forcing her. I dont care if it isnt great, im willing to work with her, it wont make me love her any less. am I being unreasonable? what should I do, remind her, forget about it or what?

I'M IN THE SAME SITUATION. MY GIRL TOOK A WHILE TO GIVE ME HEAD, AND WHEN SHE DID IT I HAD TO ASK BY SAYING CAN I GET THE FAVOR IN RETURN AND SHE SAID TO ME I'M GETTING BRAVE IN ASKING HER FOR HEAD. MY PRIDE WAS SHOT AND I NEVER DID ASK HER AGAIN FOR A WHILE 4 MONTHS PASSED AND STILL NOTHING, BUT I NEVER GAVE UP IN GIVE HE BODY THE BEST PLEASEURE IT CAN RECEIVE I MEAN I DID THE NASTY. EATING HER OUT LICKING EVERY PART OF HER BODY. I GREW IMPATIENT AND LET HER KNOW HOW I WAS FEELING AND SHE TOLD ME THAT SOMETIME SHE WOULD KEEP FROM GIVING HER ORAL SEX, JUST SO SHE WOULDN'T FEEL GUILTY ABOUT NOT GIVING ME HEAD. WE'VE BEEN TOGETHER FOR 8 1/2MONTHS. I DON'T HOW LONG I'M going to LAST BEFORE I BREAK AND START GETTING HEAD FROM SOMEONE ELSE, BUT LIKE A FEW PEOPLE SAID JUST LOVE HER AND DON'T LET THAT BE A BURDEN. DUDE THE BEST THIS DO IS TO EAT HER OUT LIKE IT'S YOUR LAST. AND IF YOU FEEL LIKE SHE'S STILL AVOIDING IT DON'T GET SELFISH AND LOOK FOR SOMETHING ELSE. PUT IT THIS WAY IF YOU MAKE LOVE TO HER GIVE IT TO HER GOOD, CAUSE IF ANOTHER MAN COULD GIVE IT TO HER, HE LOVE HER GOOD. LIL WAYNE WITH A TWIST. IT'S COMING DOG DON'T WORRY SHE'S going to SUCK YOU TO INFINITY THAT'S YOUR WOMAN JUST BE PATIENT.

im a girl an I go down on ma boyf I love it, my advice is to get her all kinked up an then wak ya cok out at her :P an the first time that I ever gave hed ma boyf allmost forced me to... I really didnt want 2 but after my first attempt im the fukinn goddess of hed :P

Okay it sounds like she just doesnt want to do it. She might not have liked it when she had the fling but she doesnt want to make you paraniod because she wont. She loves you right and if you love her you wont pressure her maby mention every now and again when its getting heavy but always tell her its her chose.

I might be late on this issue. But bro...if you really want some head that bad maybe ask her one more time if she play go get another female that strictly gives you dome no strings no problems baby.

sounds like she doesnt like doing it.
but doesnt want to tell you no.

she might just be ashamed of what happened. my last ex forced me so when my current boyfriend asked I didnt know what to say because I had bad memories of it. and after I told him that he put it away and kissed me and said I not going to force anything upon you. so like a week later I decided I wanted to si I was the one that unzipped his pants and took his cloths off and at first when it went into my mouth bad memories did come back but then I thought im with someone I love a lot and I know he wouldnt do that to me. so basically dont pressure her. when shes ready she will

she might just be ashamed of what happened. my last ex forced me so when my current boyfriend asked I didnt know what to say because I had bad memories of it. and after I told him that he put it away and kissed me and said I not going to force anything upon you. so like a week later I decided I wanted to si I was the one that unzipped his pants and took his cloths off and at first when it went into my mouth bad memories did come back but then I thought im with someone I love a lot and I know he wouldnt do that to me. so basically dont pressure her. when shes ready she will

okay man this is what you do that should make it real good ... step one get youe self a can of whiped cream ..second get naked with your girl... dont even tell her you want head... just tell her you want to lick whipped cream of her..the idea her is for her to do the same here to you ... introduce her to a banana split.lol if you catch my drift. hey dude I see why any girl would want to pass on a banana split...if that dont work asker ,you dont like to pleasure me?? and then see what she tells you..

Sound's like she is getting what she wants and will not return the favor.

to be completely honest ... you sound like a douche bag! your girlfriend obviously isn't comfortable with giving you head. she talks about it and brings it up in conversation because she loves you and wants to do something for you... but some things are just too big to ask for. suck it up and drop the subject. if you respect her you'll stop asking her for it!

Some girls find it degrading. Settle for a hand job.

Well dude I wouldnt be mad atleast she tried. Like my case my girl looks at my dick and gives me a look like shes constipated or about to puke. imagine if she did that to you. Everytime I even bring it up she looks sick like she ate a bad pickle. Lets just say I will prob never ever get head :-/ At the beg she was all over me and now its like we're89 years old and I have to sneak her a pill in her drink when shes not looking she doesnt know that. My girl would rather lay under the covers and spoon and I dont even spoon her! shame I know I caan only imagine when we get older we prob wont even kiss or hold hands it will be to much work for her. and we're only in our 20's. Thank god for the gym cause I would explode

its very simple she doesnt want to do it
she doesnt want to say it but SHE DOESNT WANT TO DO IT

get her drunk duh

I dont particularly have this problem its more of how far she will go down, she will give me head but she said I choke her when I want her to go deeper, I tried asking google questions on how you can go deeper, I found one but she thinks that it's weird...so I would suggest taking time, find a new site to ask this question and maybe you'll get an answer, or if you are the lazy type, get a new girlfriend...

Ok so yeah Im a girl and I love it when my boy goes down and If I dont do it I'll totally say next time and when Im in the moment I'll totally chicken out!!! But why she is not doing it could be for a BILLION reasons so you'll have to find a way to open her up about it...

Giving head isn't bad at all. and it's not hard. actually eating a girl out is way worse.
I kinda like giving head

Me and my girlfriend used to have sex all the time, literally 3 times a day, but then she missed her period but it was just a scare, now we havent had sex in 3 months and shee wants to go on the pill, she just keeps saying she will but keeps putting it off.
I said I was fine with it becuase I love her.
She told me she would give me head often while she wasnt on the
Pill which is what she used to do but nowerdays all I do is Lick her out and get nothing back. She keeps telling me she will suck my dick tomorrow but it never happens.
I feel for you man.

um one you lucky she is even having sex with you, I personally dont believe in sex before marriage so ja but two how about you just forget and let it happen if and when she is ready.. tell her you ok with it not happening and that you dont want to feel at all pressured..

The reason that she won't go down on you is becuase you probably smell bad ?