What if my girlfriend's mom's boyfriend is racist?

Back again. My girlfriends,mom boyfriend is a racist towards black people ( im black girlfriend is white). I have been datin my girl 4 a year and to months, the mom loves me, and everynight she hangs with me the mom lies to her boyfriend ro he wont know. When is it a good time to let her moms boyfriend know about me? Because I want her to move in with me, so does the mother what do I do!?!?

That's a tough question. There's nothing you can do to get him to like you if he's as ignorant as you say he is. Just get her to move in with you and deal with the consequences as they come.

If its just her moms boyfriend he can't do anything. He has no say in it, if its her father then he does and I would just talk to him. Yeah it will be hard but it will just take some getting used to. Tell him that you really love her and rerasure him that its okay. But if its her boyfriend and her mom approves just do it. He can't tell you anything, and if he does you don't have to listen to him.

Hope I helped, xoxo

He cant do anything...I have the same problem I'm white and my boyfriend is black and my grandma is racist but I just moved out and moved in with my boyfriend trust me after awhile her boyfriend will get use to it...but either way he has no say in it! so good luck!