My girlfriend is giving up. she cant orgasim.

My girlfriend is giving up on sex. she cant orgasim. not with me and not by herself. we've tried a couple things but not much cause she's giving up on it and we barly have sex anymore. I want to help but she wont let me. we've tried v-cream, I just bought the eroscillator deluxe. she tried it once and that was it. she wont try pills that I found online, like sentia. we've tried a lot of positions but there are still a ton more we could do but cant because she is never in the mood anymore. I try to get her in the mood and get nothing. I think she tries to concentrate on it to much when we try and doesnt relax. I dont know what to do. should I stop bothering her about it and hope this is just a phase and she'll want to try again. or just plan on not having sex ever again.

I find it really hard to org**m when having sex as I dont seem to get the right stimulation, I still really enjoy the sex tho, my boyfriend will give me oral to make me org**m as I have constant stimulation on my clit which seems to work. Different women need different things t make them org**m, your girlfriend is getting really frustrated which I can understand. Dont try and push her too much at the moment. Tell her you love her and that sex isnt the most important thing to you, she is. When shes ready/horny from not having sex she'll soon want it again. Just try experimenting with things, tell her if she doesnt come then you wont, its only fair!

dont give up. if you can get her in the mood(thats the hard part, ill leave that up to you), then remember everything about her body, what she likes and stimulate her sensitive areas. also try putting a pillow or two behind her back to raise her up a bit. its a different pressure point, and gives different sensations. but if your worried about it wrecking you as a couple, then make sure she knows that it's not the most important thing to you. she'll come around, and hopefully "come" around too. Best of luck, hope it works out.

Can I ask your age? Sometimes it helps to have a date where you pretend to be on your first date.Talk about how you first met ,what it was that attracted you to each other. Have fun with it. Pretend to have a repeat of your very first kiss.Imagine how it felt to have to wait to finally make love.Now you have the chance to make your *first date* even better because this time you will actually get naked!!!!!

I am 27 and she is 24. I forgot to mention though she is having problems down there. she is pretty much bleeding three weeks out of the month. she went to the doctor and at first they said the test didnt work and they wanted her to come back in. then on the same day they called back and told her not to and that the test was alright and to come in six months from now. it was through careworks, she said the doctor didnt even really listen to watch she had to say. I know this is one reason we dont have sex that often. now we are sort of on a break though even thought she came over last night and we ended up having sex. at first she told me that she couldnt see herself marrying me. we been together for a year and three months. she said that I was ready to settledown. but she still wanted to be friends. now I love her to death, I wasnt planing ahead at all and im not ready to settledown. I would like to think were going in that direction though. I cant see myself being just friends with her, I love her to much and wouldnt want to see her with anyone else. we talked a couple days later and now she says that she doesnt know if she is doing the right thing, and she doesnt want to lose me, and that she is just confused right now. whe ended up hanging out on the 14th after work pretty much all day and night. I did try anything, I wanted to give her her space she wanted. she came on to me last night but said it doesnt mean were back together but it doesnt mean I dont want too. so right now sex is the least of my worries I just hepe she wants to get back together. and no she still didnt orgasim last night either even though we tried some now things up she did like a lot of the things I did though.

I have been in a relationship for 5 months and before I used to love s*x I am also having the same problem as your girlfriend and I understand how frustrating it is I am on the verge of giving up too.. like everyone is saying reassure her that it is not the only thing that matters too you... I love having s*x but just cant see to get off at first I thought sometime was wrong with me then my partner thought it was him and we cant figure it out keep trying new things is my only suggestion and maybe get her to talk to her obgyn about it sometimes it can be something under the surface!