My girlfriend broke up with me for space and time to think & more .

Okay, please bare with me because this should make a lot of sense. I've been dating this girl for a year and 2 months. We were madly in love and I could tell. We were so happy together and had no problems and when we did we fixed them easily and simple....

But sadly, out of no where, I wake up at about 12 in the morning and see she texted me saying We need to talk the four words no one wants to hear. So I was talking to her on the phone and she said, She just wants space and to think about things. And since I wasn't think and not being understanding .. I said stuff out of anger, since this was about the 5th time she broke up with me and so I was furious. I said stuff out of anger and said I regret this relationship .. She said she cried miserablly that whole day because of what I said. I'm really not like that, I love her to death I really do but I said something out of anger. I tried all the wrongs things though to fix it .. For a straight two weeks I tried to fix it, I did the wrong things, I came to her house with flowers, I kept bringin up the break up and etc. She told me a month before we broke up she liked her bestfriend, I can see how .. he liked her for a while and always tried to be there for her and she got pulled in by it. She told me she likes him but can't see herself in a relationship with him. She also said she can only see herself in a relation ship with me and how she tells me she can't stop loving me and caring about me, she also said she misses talking to me but she doesn't make an effort into talking to me, I keep coming to her which is bad .. I want to give her space and time but I can't handle it. I keep thinking if I wait she won't want me anymore .. And I'm scared on what to do. She says she wants to be with me but not now .. and how she can't date the person she likes. Love beats like anyday so it keeps changing my mind on what's going to happen .. I keep thinking shell come to me by what she tells me and than she keeps changing her mind. She also keeps saying how she doesn't want me out of her life and still wants to talk to me and come to her if I have any problems. She also said its hard seeing me at school and not talking to me sometimes. She goes down the hallways at my school holding hands with the guy she likes but they aren't dating. She says she can't do anything more than kiss a guy when they aren't dating, and I believe her cause she has respect. I want to know what I can do to get her back, Give her space? Let her think? I have so many questions right now and I need someones help fast!

1) Should I give her space and let her think intill she talks to me?

2) How can I tell from what she said to me if she still wants me back? ( this is a big one I want to know )

3) Is this new guy she like just temporary?

Please everyone help me on this I've been trying to hard and strong to fix this, I really do love her and don't want to lose her as a girlfriend and my future

we broke up in the beginning of September in 2009. I havn't slept or eaten anything since we broke up and its been 3 weeks of being broken up. It's just so hard, again, please give me advice I really need it!

Don't be so negative about it. If she loves you she will come back to you. This space is helping the relationship...it will make it stronger. Do not stress so much about it. I know you love her but if you keep smothering her you will push her away. And most likely the new guy is just temporary if she cannot even kiss him. She is probably confused and needs to make sure your the one she really wants. Give her time. She will come back to you and if you feel like talking to her then do so, she said so herself you can. NOW EAT AND GET SOME SLEEP BOY!!!

Dude...I'm telling you this man to man...9 times outta 10 its over. Don't go bye just what I say but I've been in the same position you are in...it hurts...bad. It has been 2 or 3 years and I still think about her every day. We don't talk or see eachother any more because I gave her space and she moved on...and as ironic as it is it was with her friend that she had a crush on. I'm not telling you this to piss you off or get you down but om telling you from personal experince. The funny sh!t is we where dating for 1 year and about 4 months...and she cheated on me with 12 guys in that time. I was heart broken. But any ways the only thing I can tell you is keep your head up and don't give up on her. If you really love her and she loves you she will come back to u.
I truly wish you luck.