How can I make her feel good in a safe way?

Okay, well me and my girlfriend have been going out for a few months now, and it seems like the longer we're going out, the more she wants from me. Lately she's been asking me to finger her. Some days we'll be sitting at the park at like 10:00 P.M. maybe 11:00 P.M. watching her little sister. Then she'll tell her little sister to go play on the playground or something, then she'll get on top of me and we'll start making out. How can I turn her on more? I don't want s*x I know I'm too young for that, but I mean, there has to be some safe way to get pleasure for both of us. I'm only 14, I'm sorry, I accidentally leave that part til the end always lol. Thank you.

Well there are many ways to pleasure a girl without having s*x. Making out is a good way to do that, also playing with her breasts, oral.. fingering.. are all good alteratives.

We do make out quite a bit, but the thing is, I don't just want to jump right in and start playing with her breasts. How can I move into this? We've talked about fingering, but never oral. I don't know a thing about fingering, so I don't really know. =[

I agree with aliciawebster

That didn't help me with my last post..

talk to her about what turns her on,so you know what you can work on in the near future.