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How to make my girlfriend more comfortable around me?

Skating.. Asked by bodom_junior about 1 year ago, 3 answers.

Im with a cool girl shes hot and everything..
but sometimes shes shy and she doesnt
want to talk to me or anything.

Yes ived kissed her and all that but now
its like she doesnt want to be with me..
she even said she is shy...but I dont know
why...shes...

been hiding from me..

I really care about this girl
and when I talk to her
I think she ignores me

What should I do??
So shes comfortable around me...?

Macau Answered by mrevol on Dec 06, 2007, 08:36AM
24 answers

Maybe you should learn how to write and speak in complete sentences first. If we can't understand you, she probably can't either bub.

im on the right Answered by xoxelizabeth92 on Dec 06, 2007, 09:03AM
51 answers

well, im assuming your girlfriend is 13 since your 13. and im a 14 year old girl so I think I know why shes acting this way. when I was 13, I was the same way. I would actually AVOID my own boyfriend because I was uncomfortable around he. its not that he was a bad boyfriend or he was doing something wrong, it was me. I just felt awkward around him and a little embarassed, because he knew I had feelings for him [even tho he liked me too] and I could never think of anything to say because I was so nervous and like I couldnt look him in the eyes for more than a few seconds.. he was a great guy though and I really cared about him. I was just inexperienced. whatever you do, DONT DUMP HER. thats what my boyfriend did, and I still regret it to this day [7 months later]. just dont take it personally her ignoring you and understand that shes just embarassed around you, thats all. my advice in getting her to be more comfortable with you is to just spend more time with her.. if she runs off ignoring u, dont chase her. let her be. but take it slow. make an effort to be with her just dont fall all over her. shell start to lose her shyness more and more as time passes. stop forcing things, take it slow.. and the little moments you spend with her will add up. everything will be ok. dont hesitate to message me if you need more help. ill be here happy

my dog is cute. Answered by tinatodder4 on Dec 06, 2007, 10:02AM
2637 answers

since apparently she's 13, thats when most girls are really self-conscious and nervous around their partner. reassure her that there is nothing to be be afraid of, because you care about her even if with her flaws, and any mistake she makes. and tell her that you don't care that she's not perfect, and that she should just be herself.

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