My gal is falling off my pace

My gal of 2 years flactuates in sexual desire. At one time she drives me crazy then at others she doesn't want to have sex. I persuade her but sometimes I just have to contend without sex. I have cheated on her but none of it felt like her- I just want her. how can I make her feel the way I do?

well you cant and you is wrong for cheating on her and any way she will have sex wit you when she wants to stop onlii wanting sex maybe she will do it wit u

Maybe she knows you have cheated on her and is afraid to confront you...she knows you have cheated and is feeling down about the realationship you once had and doesn't want to have sex because of your cheating and how your making her feel less loved...and now she doesn't want to return her love to you. Women can sense when a guy has cheated...its not hard...you better do some good open honest communications with her letting her know she is the only women in your world..... because if you don't... she will nolonger be apart of your world if she's not feeling right with you.

Cheating is really really wrong and you never should have did it. Before you continue with the relationship any farther I think that you should make sure in your heart and soul you love her for her not for her looks or because she makes your di*k happy. Show her you love her for her and not for that. a lot of women do that and its perfectly fine. Why dont you get her beano or something and start to not care that she does it. Maybe she has IBS or something I don't know but cheating on her should never have been done.