My friends or my girlfriend

K so I have a girlfriend right now.. And I've been hanging out with her a lot lately.. And I kind of been not ditching but making plans with her first in stead of my friends... My friend has recently talked with me that he feels left out and that we don't hang out any more.. But I kind of got a little defensive and was like well dude its not my fault your ugly and have no girl... He is really mad at me and I don't know what to do.. He is kind of making me choose my friends or my girlfriend..?

You should always know that friends are everything. You should never choose between a girlfriend of yours and a good friend. There is nothing wrong spending time with your girlfriend, but honestly, give your friend some credit. If he feels left out, do you really want him to feel like that? If you can make time to hang out with your girlfriend, then take some time to spend time with your friend.

I have no idea why you would say, "It's not my fault that you're ugly and have no girl." I would be torn apart if my friend said something like that to me. I can tell that you didn't mean it, and it was something that slipped out of your mouth, but I would sure appologize to your friend.

I don't think he is making you choose. Remain with your girlfriend if you please, but you have to understand that your friend does miss you, and you should hang out with him more often. I wish you the best of luck.
If your friend sees how guilty and how sorry you felt calling him something like that, then he may forgive you.

both. just fit your schedule for both of them.

It is not impossible to hang out with your friend, you, your g/f, and your friend. Your g/f and your friend should be also friends. What is the problem here?

friends should come first. the girls come and go but friends are always there. if your girlfriend and friend dont have a problem with each other all of yu can hang. if they do have a problem make time to spend with friends and you girlfriend. just because yu have a girlfriend doesnt mean she has to be your whole life friends are a big part of it too.

and for what you said to yur friend I would call him and make time to hang with him and tell him your sorry.

you should always put your friends above your girlfriend