My friends hate my boyfriend

Well my friends hate I mean hate my b/f (future husband) .. They told me that I have changed .. And get mad when I ever I go talk to him at school ...they say that me and him are discusting and .. They used to like him before we stated dateing him...(but only as a friend) ...they say I blow them of and I realy dont .. I just dont spend every second with them like I used to ... What should I do

That's there problem. You have to think about you and him,not you, him and your friends.

I dont know what to do I have tried to work it out with them and now I barley get to see him and they still arnt satisfied I love him and they are saying if I dont dump him they dont want to be my friends ... but I realy want them to like him cause me and him are going to get married but they have been my friends since 1st grade ... but I am not going to choose them over him but I am not going to choose him over him if that makes any sence

I am confused

that's there fault. it sounds like you are hanging out with your friends and your boyfriend which is good. your friends sound like they are jealous because you have a guy in your life. they just have to get used to you not being there 24/7 with them anymore because you have another important person in your life.

yeah I havent had many b/f s I dont know why they are doing this to me they want me to choose

Your going to get married at age 15?

never turn your back on your true friends, you say they threatend to not be your friend if you don't break up with him. that doesn't sound like there very good friends to me. but you also say you've known em since first grade, I still have the same friends since first grade, and I have absolute trust in all of them, thats really hard to find. just find a way to effectivly manage your time. because lets be truthful, you and your boyfriend will most likely not work out. not at your age, possible, but highly unlikely. you turn your back on your friends now and the relationship doesn't work out, then what will you have. just find the median, you can make everyone happy, you just have to know how to do it.

I think being engaged at 15 is VERY silly. Let me guess, you are dating an older guy... You are still young, too young to know what you want right now...I'm sure you think your not blowing your friends off, but your not in their shoes. Most girls that age tend to center their lives around their boyfriends. Your proving that by getting engaged at such a young age! Girls who choose their boyfriends over their girlfriends in highschool, tend to not have any friends when the relationship ends. Think about it, exactly how much time do you spend with your friends...outside of school that is! I bet if you thought about it, they probably do have a legitimate reason for feeling the way they do.

This sounds familiar. Same things happening to my friend. Though we're not 15, we're all 18. She's dating this guy and they're engaged and her friends think she's drifting, which she is. But what youre friends need to do and you is suck it up and no how to balance time with your boyfriend and friends. Friends are friends and they'll be there if or when you guys don't work out. I don't think jealousy is a factor for your friends, they probly know something about your boyfriend that you don't or get bad vibes from him. You should think about him and you but also you and your friends. Trust me, this is happening with my best friend, but the only thing I can do is tell her what I think and be happy for them. Yes, I'm partly jealous because I have no one, but only like .1%.

well they used to like him before we started dateing ... I realy do love him...but I dont put him first..I see my friends 2or3 times during the weekend and about everyday after school .. to be honest I am kinda blowing him off ...but it still isnt good enuff for him... we are not getting married right away though... we got to wait like 3 more years...however I used to spend all my time with them ..I have tried to work it out where no one gets left out but that doesnt always happen ... why are they being so difficult every thing I sugest isnt good enuff ...

this is the exact same situation as me lol just find time for both its what I do. whoever asks to go somewhere first you go with them