What if my friend wants to give me her baby?

oh my god one of my friends whants me to have her unborn daughter because she dose not want her !! but if I say no she might not be my friend any more what should I do she is due soon please reply and also I was there when she did the test and I was the only one thats noes

If she is a true friend then she won't 'not be your friend' just because you say no to not having her baby.

There is a lot to go through when having someone else's baby and it is a huge decision. You have every right to say no even though she may be a little upset.

There's not much you can do apart from saying no, unless you want to go through with it all.

I hope it all goes well.

Good luck

xxx

Some friend, she should not be dumping an unborn baby onto you, not your responsibility

DO NOT TAKE THE BABY IF YOU DON'T FEEL LIKE YOU ARE READY! if you realy want to be a mother to this child then you can take it if you want, but this is a serius thing to get into and if you don't want to then you really shouldn't do it. it would be unfair to the baby to have a mother who dosn't want it. how would you feel if that had hapened to you. only take the baby if you feel like you are ready to handle the responsibility of taking care of a child. it is a mayjor lifestyle change and you shouldn't do it if you don't want to. if you decide not to, then you should tell you friend that you arn't ready to have that resposibility and you are not going to take it. tell her that she needs to figure out what to do with the baby and you can help her raise it, but you are not going to take it.

This is her responsibility not YOURS. Please understand that this a consequence of her having sex. A baby IS a huge responsibility. If she can not handle it, then she needs to talk to someone and get HELP. There are options for her- (adoption).

Like the others users said, if she was your friend, she would not be trying to dump her problems on you. She needs to deal with this the right way. And that does not mean guilting people to take her baby so that she does not have to deal the responsibilities. She needs to talk to someone about this right away.

if she is atrue afriend she would understand you, and respect your desicion,don't do anything you are not convinced with ,just to keep her friendship, cause this abig responsibilty, wish you good luck.

She sounds like a lousy friend, and even lousier mother...

tell her off
it's her baby not yours

thanks guys that helps you all true advisers

xxx

how old is she. Be very careful with this situation. If she does not want the baby she can leave it at the firehouse or something. I don't want anything to happen to the baby b/c of her. Please be careful

Ok first of all, Is she on drugs?

Say nooo. It will be pain in the a*s

If she does not want the baby, suggest that she go to an adoption agency! There are hundreds of families out there who are wanting to adopt. Most churches and hospitals can help! Stress to her that the baby deserves the best future available. Tell her you are there for her.

I think you shoudl encourage her to keep the baby and go round and help out as much as you can at least that way she wont think your abandonning her. if she still has no feelings for the baby consider giving it up for adoption.

Help her find an adoptive family that WANTS the child!

there are lots of couples who want to adopt and an agency is not the only way to go there is a type of adoption called independent adoption which my husband and I are trying to do right now if you would like more info about this option please let me know

she'l still b your friend if you say know.she should put the baby up for adoption or keep it but tell her not 2 get an abortion I h8 when plp get abortions

o dis is 3months old lol

hiya
I am very to all them people out there that cant have kids. she had an abortion

I meen adopted

well thats good for you both you should say to her that you love her & all but can't take her baby but that she sould give up for adoption & that you would be their for her during her pregnancy to help out.

well thats good for you both you should say to her that you love her & all but can't take her baby but that she sould give up for adoption & that you would be their for her during her pregnancy to help out.