My friend is pissing me off.

Im the type of person to always adiod conflict and my best friend is very bossy, which iinhances my angry more and more everyday. I mean it seems, I mean I know that she gets off on bossing people around. I dont know what to do about it. I have a hard time saying no. I must be a real wimp lol. im basically afraid I will blow up at her and in a physical way. So I dont know what to do. we have been friends since we were 14 years old. That is 14 years we have been friends. so I dont want to lose her as a friend. what do I do?

How is your friend supposed to know that you are upset with her if you don't show it. Do you know what passive aggressive means? You need to work on expressing your feelings. She can't read your mind.

have you ever watched 27 dresses?... well in the movie, the girl's younger sister always bosses her around... it's pretty much the same conflict that you have with your friend! except, the sister in 27 dresses, was able to stand against her little sister, and tell her she can't stand her bossing her around anymore! - well, you and your friend have been best buds for 14years... so you're practically like sisters! question is... are you able to stand up for yourself, like the sister in 27 dresses?

eventhough she's your friend, when you've had enough, you've had ENOUGH!

How about this:

If your uncomfortable with telling her NO, or you dont always agree with what she is saying then maybe you need to make it your business to just VOID her out @ time and then she just might ask you WHY then you can take that time to explain why your notgonna feed n2 her because it builds your anger...

Hope I could Help : )