My friend is losing it!!

Hey,I have afriend whose habits are really worrying.she is 14 but if she doesnt change for the better god knows what will happen.
She has a 19 year old boyfriend who drinks.the friends she hangs out with are either drunkards or messed up.she...

goes for raves when she goes home(we are in a boarding school) and it is very dangerous because she dresses scantily.one night she went for a raev and got so drunk she made out wit almost al the guys there.{she told me herself}
I am very worried for her life as she is very smart and can go places.any advice on how to approach her as a caring friend?

if she's hanging out with people like that, then something is NOT right. this is the way I see it: she feels that these people have accepted her b/c she does what they do and if she stops doing it, they won't be around. what you do is you show her that you and other people love her for who she is, not what she does. get all these people together in some way, show her that she already has great friends, then help her seek the help she needs. I've helped a friend in a similar situation, so if you should need my help, let me know. I don't want anything bad to happen to her.