My friend doesnt know if she is a virgin

its all about ME!! Asked by natie 10 months ago, 14 answers.

Her and her 2year parenter Alex** have been playing around more then usual, she thought she was ready for it, so as the head of the penis went in her, for about 2-3cms deep it started hurting her, she realised the deeper it will go the more it would hurt...

so she asked him to stop. She didnt bleed but she is confused. I believe she is a virgin but I need help to convience her. Lately shes been really depressed, and to Alex it makes no difference if she is or isnt a virgin he will still stay with her because he really loves her..

Shark Atack Answered by funadvice on Jan 02, 2009, 06:48PM
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no, it doesn't depend on how far it went in... she's not a virgin anymore... but she shouldn't be depressed... she's still with the guy, and he obviously loves her... if she loves him back then she shouldn't be ashamed or depressed...

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35 weeks pregnant (Yes, I have a sports-bra on) Answered by stephanief987 on Jan 02, 2009, 03:31PM
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She's technically not a virgin - he put it in, it doesn't matter how far it went.
I didn't ever bleed either, why is she so depressed about this? I don't understand why she'd be depressed if they've been together for 2 years surprised

Me Answered by sweetie1995 on Jan 02, 2009, 03:32PM
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I don't really know as only young but guess if penis went in then no she is not a virgin but could be wrong as bit young to know but do know you lose it when having sex.

The Fiance and Me at a Luau Answered by mandyloo on Jan 02, 2009, 03:34PM
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She's not a virgin anymore by technicality. Anytime a penis enters your vagina, even if it's not all the way, that is considered sex.

Answered by lyas on Jan 02, 2009, 03:35PM
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Technically she is not a virgin. You dont have to have you cherry pop to not be a virgin. Sex is Sex she is not a virgin sadly, there is nothing wrong with her changing her mind thats a really good thing but a true virgin is no sexual anything really, but a male female sexual intercoarse means that sticking it in is sex his penis did go inside her she is not a virgin.

me thinking Answered by girly_girl_girl on Jan 02, 2009, 04:17PM
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I don't think she is bcause that happen to me but if she prays and ask god to make her. A virgin again then by her own belief she is tell her to stop being depressed it's nun wrong bcause it's natural to be scared to da first tim...

Answered by filipinoboy14 on Jan 02, 2009, 06:00PM
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uuuh... well if da dudes penis when in her, den doesnt that make her not a virgin nomore? because even doe it didnt go all da way in.. it still when in.. I I ges she not nomore

i dun smile much... so here's my best one! Answered by butterfly_kiss3z on Jan 07, 2009, 04:10AM
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if Alex's penis went into your friend, you friend is no longer a virgin. what I don't get is why she's so upset? if she felt that she was ready, then there is nothing to fear, unless she is a christian - and believes in saving herself till marriage. but then main reason why it probably hurt was because she was scared of the thought, so she was tensed, making her tight, making it hurt! why not try comforting her by advising her to give it a second try (if she likes) but this time include fore play (so shes more relaxed) and maybe use some lube!!

Mobile Phone Picture :) Answered by yesimalittle_cup_cake on Jan 08, 2009, 02:27PM
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shes not a virgin anymore - the penis went inside her vaginia.

I t dosnt matter how far it goes.

(:

its all about ME!! Answered by natie on Jan 20, 2009, 06:18PM
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In the strictest term; you are a virgin until you've had sexual intercourse with the member of the opposite sex.

Answered by reign on Jun 20, 2009, 08:59PM

Well to give you the facts. For a woman to lose her virginity it must fully enter the vagina. If he went in only a few cm, it takes a little more than that to even pass the hymen.what she felt was just pressure. truth is if you still have your hymen you are, if not your not. talk to your local doctor.

Shark Atack Answered by funadvice on Jul 18, 2009, 08:31PM
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Poor hymen.

:) Answered by luckylove on Aug 07, 2009, 12:41AM
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you only looses your virginal status if you actually fully have sex he went in for a few seconds so she is !

Answered by sexxybitch11209 on Oct 19, 2009, 06:59PM

Ya the same thing happened to my friend but she doesnt reget it.Her and her boyfriend are 12!! ewwey she was trying to tell me she was still a virgin but she isnt but I am abstinent so I guess I will never understand why she would do that

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