My friend doesn't realise

How insecure she's making me.

It's not all the time, it's just cause she's premature she's short and skinny and stuff

Im not fat or anything but I feel im overweight. It's like I don't know. I've probs got some weight problem like everytime im thinking about going to the shop to get icecream im like no your fat stfu and I walk home..

But anyway.. Like when im changing or something, I have some flab, but not like wow your fat flab, just a handful when I bend over.

And shes like ' man your fat ' and just stuff like that.

I love her to bits and everything. She's been my bezzie for 6 years.

I dont want to say anything but sometimes im just like go awayyy and she goes aww but you are and I love you and hugs me.

It still makes me insecure.

I just dont know. Any adivce?

wow your bestie sounds like a biatchh.
I feel your pain
um no wear near fat but I have the stupid annoying roll
many people do nowadays lol
but I have bigger boobs than my best friend and a bigger butt
she's was just a twig
until...
we got alittle older and I kept my figure
now she's over there with the huge roll while I look alittle better than she

self-confidence is the key
you are good looking and happy no matter what your friend tells you
if putting people down is the only way she can feel good about herself, she's the one with issues.

I had a 'friend' who used to tell me I was short and fat. It turned out that her mother really resented her for 'messing up her life' (the mother had her when she was a teenager). My friend was just taking out her insecurities on me. For a while it made me feel insecure, but then it made me find other friends, who never told me stuff like that! If she doesn't want to lose you as a friend, you need to warn her that the stuff she's doing now is likely to scare you away.

hey if she wasn't your friend she wouldn't be calling you fat. I'm sure its out of playfulness, don't let stupid insecurities stop you from buying icecream, by god you eat that icecream! No really icecream is yummy...

awwweh hun you shouldnt feel insecure you are young and have enough time to change how you look im not saying you should but by you being insecure its causing you to miss out on good things. like ICE CREAM :D.
and if its really a big put down when she does that then you should tell her how you feel when she treats you that way.and if she is your bestie she should really stop once you tell her. Good Luck.