How to tell my friend her boyfriend won't leave his wife?

my friend hasbeen dating this married guy off and on for a little over a year now. He calls her and tells things that his wife is doing and she always says that he doesnt want to be with her.I keep telling her there is two sidesto every story and I am a firm believer that if he wants to be with her he will leave his wife. He told her that the only reason he is still there is because of his kids.He has two ages 4 and 1 and his wife is pregnant with their third child. I don't think he is goingto leave his wife and he is telling my friendwhat shewants to hearbut she is set on being with him. what can I do if anything

And she will keep on believing him!

Show her this> 'Dating a Married Man' Are you the 'other woman?' If you're involved with a married man, and you're waiting for your turn, it's time to re-evaluate your situation. Dr. Phil offers advice:

It's time to move forward.
If you're putting your life on hold for a married man, he's stolen not only your heart — he's stolen your brain!

No matter how you justify it, you are attacking his family unit.
Even if he is separated from his wife, that is their business and you are a threat to their marriage. You aren't welcome and you don't belong.

You may feel that he's your soul mate, but think again.
A real soul mate would not set you on the sidelines. He wouldn't allow it, let alone entice it.

Keep in mind that you only know what he tells you.
You already know that he's a liar because he's living a lie with his wife and children. How can you be sure whether you're the only 'other woman' he has? Entertain the possibility that he is lying to you, and you are being used.

Think of his wife.
Is it fair to her? She's been married to him for however many years, cleaned up after him when he's sick, raised children with him, sacrificed with him, dealt with the 'damn dailies,' then you come in at the 11th hour and provide a contrast to that that's new and exciting and fun. You are intruding upon her turf. You are a trespasser. It is no different than being a thief in the night. It is no different than breaking into their house and stealing their things.

Even if your married man decided to leave his wife and family for you, that doesn't guarantee success.
Relationships born out of affairs survive less than 5 percent of the time. If he'll do it with you, he'll do it to you. If he's living this deception with you today, how could you ever trust him if you did get into a legitimate relationship with him?

Break off this relationship today.
You'll hurt, you'll feel broken-hearted, but you'll be better off. Take some time to get really clear with yourself about who you are and what you want. The most important relationship you'll ever have in this world is the one you have with yourself. And eventually, you'll fall in love again — with someone who's willing to make you first in his life.

The rest is up to her!!!

I think you r right. I think that he's just looking for a little adventure and that is why he is with your friend. it's not out of love, and he's probably just having some fun. don't believe him b/c he is not going to leave his wife.

First I want to say your a cute girl but you should put up a classier picture. Oh he ain't going to leave his wife especially if he has one on tha way. She needs to open her eyes. But its ok people got to learn on their own, no matter what you say its not going to change the situation. Your friend is going to have to get tired of being used and tired of the BS that he's spitting in her ear.

I think all women should follow their intuition. I mean guys are known to cheat on women but if theyre married and doing so, they wont necessarily leave their wivesecause it took them this long to find someoen. If anything I think he is just looking for a little ecitment out of the marriage but I dont think that your friend should actually consider that things might go her way. anyways, she should know better than to mess with a married man.