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My "friend"?

Asked by princessweird over 4 years ago, 4 answers.

The last couple of months have been hard for me because my friend wasn't talking to me for no reason. We talked, and everything was okay for a couple of days. Now she's just being plain rude(again) .She always talks to her friend about their plans for...

the weekend right in front of me without ever inviting me. I know its a small rude detail, but I'm sick of how she thinks of me like I'm less of a friend. I've been ignoring it for a long time, but I still feel bad. What should I do? Am I just overreacting to a small little detail? Advice is very well appreciated. Thanks.

A random eye Answered by runnergeek on Oct 22, 2005, 07:58AM
115 answers

this is happenin to me RITE NOW!!!! i recommend u sort it out asap-otherwise it will bcome a habit 4 ur 'friend'. say stuff like-am i invited? to make it clear to others how rude she is bein. u COOD do the same to her, but i think thats a bit mean. ask her how you have insulted her-sometimes people ignore their friends as a 'test', to see if the friend cares

Shark Atack Answered by funadvice on Oct 25, 2005, 12:06AM
53738 answers

Hmmm, i say try and talk (again) and explain to her that you dont like it when she plans things for the weekend right in front of you, and ask her why is she being rude? if she wont talk to you just ignore her, you will have to. people like that arent worth the trouble. and you go ahead and make new friends and try and have a good time without her. Dont play her stupid little game.. good luck darling....

Answered by redwing on Oct 27, 2005, 11:45AM
21 answers

Runnergeek and Danielle are right don't be afraid to ask why she's being so rude to you. That happened for a while for my friends and so I made plans with other friends when it was obvious that they weren't going to invite me along and i ended up having a great time. Remember your other friends don't ignore them. But before you rush off to throw this in her face ask her why she hasn't been talking to you if she doesn't have a good answer then ditch her in nicer words.

Answered by mistygurl on Oct 28, 2005, 12:22PM
26 answers

I think its quite obvious she isn't your friend! You DON'T treat friends that way. It sounds like she has tryed to demote you to the title of minion or groupie instead. She has some problem with you and from my stand point it probably runs deep, or maybe thats just her nature and shes using you as a steping stool up the ladder of popularity. Ignore her and if she talks to you tell her you really have no interest in being her minion, use that word by the way because you think of evil villians when you hear it. Do it in front of those other friends of hers if you have a chance.

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