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My friend

Asked by naavastar over 3 years ago, 4 answers.
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Kaitlyn and I are neighbors, and we had become very close. We would talk and talk and talk, but we espeacially talked behind people's backs and our own friends. There is a difference between my friend and I though, she is popular and I'm not.

One day, SHe just turned on me and told all her friends the things I had said about her friends AND she LIED, and told some of her friends things she had said, but then she said that I said them! I was shocked. She also told my friend, sarah, that I was going on her sn and saying weird and mean stuff to people. yes, this was true. But it was Kaitlyn's and my secret! She had betrayed me, and for no reason. SHe also told her friends my secret screename,(and I had been sayin some real mean stuff to people on that sn), so all her friends hate me...and believe me thats A LOT!
Then kaitlyn talked to me and said she wanted to be my friend again! I said I dont know. Should I be her friend after what she did to me? I mean it isnt like I can ever trust her again!

and it isnt like this was the only time, she has done this to me manytimes. ~infact, she always seems to start the fights.

what should I do?
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dark Answered by dark on Oct 29, 2005, 05:14PM
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My thoughts? You'd be a fool to trust her again. Although I have trouble feeling any sympathy for you since you seem to be a less than kind person for the childish way you've been treating people. These are childish acts you and Kaitlyn have been perpetrating on people. You two get your kicks by causing trouble and insulting people and now you're "friend" is having even more fun by letting you take the fall and watching everyone come down on you. I'm willing to bet she's the one who started you in on the whole talking about people behind their backs and secret AIM screen name thing. She's just using you as a fall guy. Someone to take the blame and laugh at. She's not your friend she's just using you for a cheap laugh and from what you said at the end she's been using you for a while. Take her back and she'll do it again. That's a promise. My advice. Cut all ties with her, apologize to all the people you hurt (don't bother trying to tell them she did it too. They won't believe you.), and move on. You'll catch crap for weeks, maybe months (depending on what you said and to how many you may carry a bad reputation for the rest of the time you attend that school) but it'll probably blow over.

Answered by sportysister_123 on Oct 30, 2005, 02:54PM
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Give her a second chance but DONT tell her Any of your secrets. That is what I would do.
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Answered by soul_charm on Oct 30, 2005, 06:27PM
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dont bother giving her another chance she will just stab you in the back over and over again find a good friend who wont do that to you and stop being mean to all those people they dont dserve it

Answered by naavastar on Nov 02, 2005, 05:14PM
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Now we are friends again, but yes I do not trust her..at all!
But I wish I could just dump her, but I dont not have many friends and I would rather have someone at this time. I have sucked up all your advice so thank you. But I think I am going to stick wit her.

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