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My first time what should I do?

love hate Asked by joanna91 4 months ago, 7 answers.

Ok well I've been dating my boyfriend for a wile now. I'm pretty shure were ready to take the next step and have sex . I'm a virgin but he has had sex before and I know that im ready and know about protection and stuff like that. Can any one on here give me advice on how to not mess up my first time. Couse I love him and know he wants to but hes wating for me to be ready and I am so what should I do?

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My daughter(left) and her cousin Answered by miomiomio on Mar 07, 2008, 03:05AM
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There is no real way to prepare. Its not that same as taking a test, because there is no way to study. The first time you do most anything, you feel some amount of nervousness. Just go slowly the first time you do it. Try to do it in some place where you feel safe and comfortable (like a your bed). The first time there will probably be a small amount of pain, but after that you can start to experiment with different positions, but the first time it is better to take it easy (just like kissing for the first time),
and get a feel for how you like it.

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Me and my baby boy. Abel Answered by abelsmommy on Mar 07, 2008, 01:26AM
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I am not sure how old you are but if you are young I would wait. I wish I had. I am not saying that your boyfriend isn't the one for you but I wished I had waited and given my virginity to my husband. If you feel he is the one and it feels right , then make sure you two use protection and be careful. If you feel uncomfortable at any time during it then just stop, if your boyfriend really loves you he will understand.

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love hate Answered by joanna91 on Mar 07, 2008, 02:05AM
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im 17 sorry probly should of wrote that up top

My daughter(left) and her cousin Answered by miomiomio on Mar 07, 2008, 03:05AM
| 171 answers.

There is no real way to prepare. Its not that same as taking a test, because there is no way to study. The first time you do most anything, you feel some amount of nervousness. Just go slowly the first time you do it. Try to do it in some place where you feel safe and comfortable (like your bed). The first time there will probably be a small amount of pain, but after that you can start to experiment with different positions, but the first time it is better to take it easy (just like kissing for the first time), and get a feel for how you like it.

MInTheGap Answered by minthegap on Mar 07, 2008, 07:21AM
| 24 answers.

I think you should wait. Sex will change the entire dynamic of your relationship. And the fact that he already has experience says that it's unpredictable what will happen once you let him have you too.

Sex will change how you think and what you think. It's powerful, and should not be entered into lightly.

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kitty Answered by ty on Mar 07, 2008, 08:24AM
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Lol, I dont think you can really mess up sex, I would just try and relax, with time it gets better because you learn what makes the other person feel good, and you learn what makes you feel good and how to encourage the other person, but that really just takes time and experience... Definitely try and be somewhere where you're comfortable and have plenty of time...

me Answered by duppyconqueror on Mar 07, 2008, 02:17PM
| 12 answers.

only you will know when is good

and when it feels good, no pressure, go for it. you will know when your comfortable enough I think.

most of all, enjoy it. dont expect to be with him forever either. know you are gaining invaluable life experience.

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