My fiances friend kissed me what do I do?

My fiance and I have beed dating for 11 years, we are suppose to finally be married next year. I love him very much and we have been through a lot toghther considering we have been dating since I was 16. We have both made our fair share of mistakes in our relationship and we have forgiven and gotten through it. The mistakes I must say have been more him than me but I have always loved him and beleived in him. Any way the other day I was having a couple of drinks with a girlfriend and two of my guy friends came over. My fiance had gone to bed, so we were just hangin out. As time went by I became quite intoxicated. I was joking with this one guy friend and we were wrestling around and I actually beleived were we just being silly. He has a pregnant girlfriend at home and he knows that my fiance and I have been together forever. He is both of our friends. And I am the type of girl who has usually hung out with the guys, so this was nothing to me. Whether or not he took it as flirting I don't know. But anyway, later I was laying on my couch and he was sitting in front of me and we were talking and the nest thing I knew he kissed me. I was kinda taken back and said what are you doing? There are other people here. And he said don't worry we will have another time, that is not what I meant. Then he asked me to go out in to the hall with him and I did. I asked how that happenned and why he did it and he said I don't know. I proceeded to tell him that I had a lot to drink and I know he had nothing to drink(not that it is an exuse but I would have treated the situation differently if I was sober). Anyway he kissed me again and for some reason I kissed him back and I am not sure why if I was sober I probably would have slapped him. Now I am stuck I son't know what to do it is 3 days later and I feel terible even though I did not initiate it. I talked to him today and he acted like it wasn't a big deal but it is, We have been friends for 5 years and I have not told my fiance not that I am scared for myself because I know he will forgive me, but it just arises so much trouble. I really do not want to see them lose their friendship and have fights break out. I already told him that I don't know what he was thinking, and that if he felt I was flirting with him , that it was mnot my intention. I already told him my fiance would go crazy if he found out. I kinda look at it like a friend got silly one night but I told him I'm not interested, so why should I hurt my fiance. This friend just put me in a terrible prediciment and I am not sure what to do. My fiance has done worse things to me in the past, but we have been doing so great lately I would hate to see him get let down. Also about a month ago this same guy that kissed me kissed my best friend ( shes single) but then that night rejected her and for some reason came after me ( which I did not expect at all), when I talked to him today he tried to tell me I initiated it and I know I didn't. I may have been itoxicated but I do remember what happenned. any one with any advice please help? (sorry so long)
thanks

It sounds like you two have some work to do before you get married next year.

*You said: "This friend just put me in a terrible prediciment and I am not sure what to do."
**Answer: No, you put yourself in this predicament. You had too much to drink. You got physical and wrestled around with him. You kissed him back the 2nd time. You were giving mixed signals. You have to own it.

Do you need to tell your boyfriend? Maybe. If it's just to relieve your guilt, no. If it's because others were there and it'll get back to him. Yes, you need to tell him first.

It will cause some bumps and problems. Yes. He'll be hurt. And rightly so. You'll eat crow for a while.

As for his friendship with the other guy. You aren't responsible for that. Your boyfriend can set the guy straight and still be friends or not. That's between them.

You need to review your problems with your boyfriend and just in general and see if alcohol is an element in them. If most things happen when you are drinking [and you drink to intoxication] you may want to examine that element and eliminate it. If you feel you can't or don't want to eliminate it---then you definitely need to look at it closely.

Good luck and blessings

when people drink they make mistakes, some are little and some carry serious consequences. it sounds like your friend is macking around and out to cause trouble. you should try to distance yourself from this person. when you are in a commited relationship with somebody,, all of your attention should be with them. you should not be alone or around "male" friends, and he should not be around "female" friends, because it is not proper. it sends the wrong message to the friends which could lead to situations like you are in. some people like your male friend like drama, and are jeolous of a relationship like you and your fiancee have. and you need to protect your relationship with your fiancee at all costs. its obvious if your friend has a pregnat girlfriend at home, and is macking on your other friend, and on you, and anything that comes along. that he could be very distructive to you or anybody else that gets caught up in his web.

Well, you really do need to tell your fiance. That guy isn't much of a friend if he is going to kiss his friend's girl anyway, expecially when he knows she is intoxicated and volnerable. You don't want to be married and have that guilt on your chest all the time and have to sit there like nothing happend when you are all hanging out.