What if I don't want to have sex?

well im 16, and I wi me fella like about 4 months and e asked me ta have sex wi em but I kinda feel da it wud turn ou realie bad like wa if e didn like it are I wasn gud enough and stuff I just don no wa ta do!

Good Lord, do you speak English?

Are you sure your from Ireland?

Hun> you need to learn how to speak and type english so we can understand what you are asking. Otherwise we cant help you.

Ha unlike them I understood you perfectly... Hun, you need to know if you really want this to happen. You shouldn't worry about if you'll be good enough, as long as you both are willing to take a chance at it. The feeling should be mutual. Just let the mood set in and you should be fine... Work it slow...

But some of the best advice I can give you is to wait a little while longer. You're still very young and being a virgin is a gift, not a burden... Somethings are better cherished for a little longer. Having sex at your age will not be the best way of letting go. You need to really think about your decision. If this is what you want then just know that you can't get your virginity back. Make this a very intellegent decision.

Good Luck!

if he says I you love me you'll do it just say 'if YOU loved ME then you wouldn't make me do something that I didn't want too...'

If you havent done it yet,don't do it. Especially, if you don't want to do it. If he is pushing you into sex, maybe he doesn't love you for real. So be strong and use your brain because I am sure that he has a plan after you end up having sex with him.

save sex for marrige !!!!!!!!! with the one you love