My family and how f*cked up it is.

Ok so my mom called a lawyer last night
My dad didnt believe that I had the rights to this house if he passed away

My dad is married to another women that he never divorced but left almost 20 years ago I have 4 sisters and 1 brother from my dad's side and one brother from my mom

My parents are very very old and some how they brought up how if my dad passed away my sister the second youngest will take our house away since she is his legal child..no matter how long he hasnt been with the other lady the rights still belong to the youngest out of them...thats what the lawyer said and me and my mom will be left with nothing ...

But my sister also has her real mothers house so she'll be left with two houses

The only way I can get the rights to the house is if my dad divorces the other lady
But I don't know what he's going to do...
And if my mom passes I'll be forced to live with my stepsisters and since my mom wont be there they'll probably mock me and insult me and I know my dad wont care
Me and my mom know that my siters and their mom dont like us...
My mom is very religious and when they needed money she sent them money to help

I dont get it.

I cant ask my dad about the whole divorce thing because then he is going to think that my mom is putting ideas into my head.

What should I do I really want him to divorce her?
Soz for the long question.

Sounds like you just want your father's house and money when he dies. That's not right. Maybe I'm looking at this the wrong way but why can't your dad make a will and have things split up amoung his children...rather than giving it all to one? I think your dad should consider that.

no thats not what I want my mom has been paying rent for this house and she doesnt want to lose what she has worked so hard for all these years to people that dont like her trust me I love my sisters so much and I wish they loved me back the same but they dont my sister in law told my mom all the things they say when we leave from the visit that how two of my sisters do witch craft and so does their mother but neither do I or my mom believe in that my sister blanca has the right to her mom's house and I should have the right to my dad's my dad is disabled right now and he's had sugery's and a heart attack do they ever call him to see how he is doing ? no. they call him when they need money.
my mom and I take care of my dad

Sounds to me, that things might get more ugly than they are right now. Just tell him. Give him a disclaimer first saying how your mom didn't put anything into your head and just tell him how you feel. Or you could scheme to break your dad and that lady up, but that's too complicated compared to you just telling him.♥

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If your dad owns the house, without any involvement of his wife, then he can make a will leaving the house to your mom or her successors in case of his death. Your mom could also make a will indicating where the house would go upon her death.

In most states after you are seperated for more than 2 years you can get a no fault divorce without the other parties consent. Also if your dad makes a will then they would not be able to fight it.