My ex-boyfriend tries to make me jealous

ok I broke up with him because he was acting silly with his friends but I do want him back but he always wants to talk bad stuff about me when he is on the phone with his best friend. he tries to mak me jealous he says things like oh im about to go out with this girl (this and that)what should I do

Ignore him. If he knows that he is getting to you then the more he's going to act the way he is. Age also has a lot to do with it. If he's real young a lot of the time a guy will act really immature like that. Plus why would you want to date a guy that is an ass to you? Let me guess he's different when he's not around his friends.Just make sure you don't let him know he's getting to you. Act like you don't care, no matter how cruel you have to get. Don't consider his feelings when he's oviously not cinsidering yours.

I ditto the advise given by SWTDRM153. And I'll add this. Have you told him you don't like being talked about and teased about him dating someone else? If you have and he keeps doing it--then it means he is totally disregarding your feelings. Is this the guy you want back?

Because this is the guy you'll get if you don't make it clear that acting that way toward you is NOT okay. And you are the only person who CAN make this clear to him.

Good luck and Blessing

Don't fall for it, stay strong. My ex-boyfriend did this to me too and it drove me absolutely CRAZY. There were so many times I almost gave in to him, but I went and talked to adults for advice instead. And they told me when guys do things like that they're just looking for ways to get to you, and it's immature, but it's normal. When they see that it's not affecting you and when they get tired of it, they leave you alone. DON'T GIVE IN TO HIM. As "swtdrm153" said, be as cruel and rude as you have to be, but whatever you do, don't fall to his pretense. He is immature and does not know how to deal with the breakup. Don't go back to him out of jealousy, because he clearly has not changed from the time you two broke up.

I would suggest you get a buddy to help you through this. When guys do this, and I'm speaking from my experience, it's enough to get you raging with jealousy. No matter how hard it is to resist, RESIST IT. That jerk is only looking for signs of weakness and jealousy in you, don't let it get to you. Occupy your time with something else, and the buddy I suggested worked the best for me. Have a buddy who will listen to you vent and who will keep you from falling into his trap.

Best of luck to you!
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