My ex-bff won't be happy for me

I've known my old Best guyfriend Chase since I was in 8th grade. I started my relationship with my boyfriend last June and we're still together. Chase has been out of my life for a while since he's been trying to avoid me for some reason when I'd always...

try to make plans with him. Today I just heard from my girl bff that he told her that my boyfriend is just with me for sex when he doesn't even know our relationship like that. Most relationships don't even last as long as ours if it is just for sex. I knew that Chase liked me but why can't he be happy for me? I've had horrible relationships before dealing with drug addicts and stuff like that and now I actually have a clean guy that's loving me for me. It hurts me. I drove over to his house to try and talk with him but no one answered the door even though his car was there. I don't know what to do! I have to be his friend on MySpace to send him a message so I have no clue what to do! He's suppose to be my best friend! =[

it sounds like this guy chase really does like you, and hes jelouse of your boyfreind
I dont think hell ever be happy for you both (I think he wants you for himself!)
try asking him how he feels about you, or something like that
because it sounds like he wants to be with you a lot

yea I think he likes you a lot, but if you dont have the same feelings for him you need to tell him but not in a mean way .. and if he is mature he will understand...

You idiot ex's feelings don't matter, that's why they're ex's