My ex boyfriend

my boyfriend and I havent been together in a year. hes been with someone else for a year now. They have broken up quite a lot. This is their longest break so far.(1month). 5 mos into their relationship he was pouring out his feelings for me. I didnt let him know that I still had very strong feelings for him at that time.(because I was hurt and angry at that time) Months before we ended, we kind of 'did it'. (I didnt let him put it in all the way though) we both cried. We had a very special relationship. That took 2 and a half years to really develop. Him and this girl did it the 2nd night.(she cheated on her boyfriend)and they barely knew 1 another. Tell me how you can love and respect a girl like that??
well I finally told him a week after they broke up that I still feel a connection with him.
Hes been wanting me so bad. He wants to feel that way with me again. I know hes not getting the emotional support from her that he got from me. He has never cried in front of her. He always let his feelings out with me.(he made me feel like I was his everything)
We both have feelings about making that connection, and when the time came, I said no. I would have but his ex still calls him all the time, and I didnt know what would have happened with him and I after. Thats why I held back!
I think he was so hurt. Since hes been with her I dont know if he thinks that if a girl has sex she likes him. I dont think he feels with her the way hes felt with me. He did it out of hurt. How can any guy love and respect a girl thats THAT easy?? They fight all the time. We didnt!
So why does he want to do it with me so badly? Please dont tell me he just wanted to use me. he can get that from HER anytime. Besides, they dont do it all that much. Thats all her and her other ex use to do though. I think shes a nympho!! she cant have a relationship without sex!
Please give me your open and honest opinion on this. I would greatly like guys to answer what they think is going on him!! (our relationship was not based on sex, like the one he has now)
Thanks!!

you need to try an get over him I may sound hash but you do because you are never gunna get up and move on if you dont

you're obsessed. why do you care about your ex? like I said, you made him your ex so stop crying about it.

he's with her cause she gave it up to him. you didnt let him, basically, and cried over it so he moved on to the one who DID. just confirms my last advice to the other girl as well.

Ok, first of all you are a great girl He hasn't been using you, don't worry! You were also special for him. Mistake on your behalf: too much accent on the relationship development and in change you overlook the importance of sex, especially for a man. Reconsider. He has sex from her and feelings from/for you. Right, you should't respect the other one, I agree, but she expresses herself sexually easily. I'm not telling you to become a little whore, but only to think of what I've said. What is not clear here and maybe you avoided it - is why did you break up if everything was so fine like you said? You've already given the answer to this problem: 'our relationship was not
based on sex, like the one he has now' You've got to combine feelings with sex and not make the same mistake again! Everybody who I know and had sex after a long time ended by breaking-up! Do not underestimate sex again. And please, if you like him so much, just take him away from that b*tch, ok?! Hugs and stuff.

well my opinion is that your a little too concerd with his ex or his new relationship.....thats not healthy.and also you compare yourself to her way too much.dont insult her because that just makes you look bad....kinda like a lil kid you no.ok now to my advice.....this guy seems to me like a dumbass.......either that or you are behavin like 1.......think about it if your relationship was the gold medal...why did it end?maybe you just remember all the good things cause you miss him...and thats perfectly normal....but he is your ex for a reason try to remember what that is.and if you do .and you still like him.I say go for it.