My dad's getting too close

I no this sounds weird and bad to some extent but I am 18 years old and right now I am going through some bad stuff. My mom and dad are married but live in dif. places and my mom tells me to go see him but when I do it is just me and him and he tries to...

touch me like my breast and one time when I was asleep he tried to come in the room I was in with lotion and try to stick his hand down there and now I feel really uncomfortable going there alone and I really dont want my family to hate me or something for it and my dad is 73...wierd I no

THATS WRONG YOU SHIULD TELL YOUR MOM ABOUT IT SHE AINT GUNNA THIN K YOUR LYEING SHE SHOULD BELIVE YOU YOUR HER DAUGHTER SO YES AND IF YOUR NOT TO CLOSE WITH YOUR MOM U SHOULD TALK TO SOMEONE N YOUR FAMILY THAT YOUR CLOSE TO MAYBE A AUNT SISTER BROTER COUSIN UNCLE YOU HAVE TO TWLL THEME U CANT KEEP THAT IS WRONG IM 18 N I WOULD TOLD MY MOM SO DO WHATS WRIGHT!

This can turn into a horrible situation real fast. Definitely go right to your mom and tell her. No one will get mad at you for telling the truth. If you decide to keep this to yourself you may actually find yourself in a worse situation where he may get further. Find the courage to sit with your mom and telling her why you find your visit's to your father's house awkward.

If you wrote right that your dad is 73 you have to consider that he may be ill. e.g. senile Alzheimer, etc. So I do not advise you to be too rigid to him. Tell your mother about what you do not like with your dad, tell your father, too, you do not like his behaviour, and carefully avoid all the occasions when he could do anything against your will.

If the mom thing doesnt work, try Bringing a guy friend there with u. He would B to scard to try anything.

Secrecy and privacy is his best weapon! So do something and tell someone! Dont let him get away with that!

first of all yuck ur dads 73 and he touchs ur how sick . u better go and tell someone before u get raped i dont want to see that happen to u its really sad . i hate guys who do that so go tell ur mama

Don't go over there anymore, also tell a phycologist, or someone like your mom, Also your 18 you don't have to go there. Also if your family is mad at you, then they have serious problems, your not responsible for keeping them happy. Get them a phycologist, and leave them for a few years, then talk to them.

omg ya, thats happend to me somewhat... when i was younger, my dad had a big cookout and my uncle was living with us at the time..that night me and my brothers and sisters fell asleep on the floor watching a movie. My uncle was laying next to me. after i had fallen alseep i woke up to my uncle messing with me...(below the waist)...so i lifted my head up to make sure i wasnt dreaming, lol...and sure enough i wasnt...so i layed back down because i didnt know what to do..and he started doing it again...i got up and went to the bathroom. when i had come back i layed on the other side of my sister so hed leave me alone. the next morning...i told my step mom what had happend and she told me dad. my dad told him if he ever touchd me again, hed kill him. but like always my uncle lied. so now no one believes me except my sister because she woke up with me next to her knowing thats not how it was when we went to sleep. so girl...dont worry your not the only one in the sutuation...ya theres not much u can do...just talk to your mom about it...that stuff happend to me when i was problably 10 im sixteen now..and to this day i will not go near him...

I have been in your situaton with my father. only thing is I was raped by him at a very very very young age. im 18 now and I dont see him. it's my choice. please tell your mom. I told my mom and she put charges on him. your 18 please do something. the images are horrible in your mind after years and years. please fix it before it gets worse.