My crush has a girlfriend, what do I do?

I have a crush on a guy that has a girlfriend what do I do ?we are friends and close but around his girlfriend he ignores me sometimes and when she's not around he's all hangout type and his girlfriend doesn't even care if he flirts with other girls.I told him I liked him so he knows and he said if him and his girlfriend weren't together he'd go out with me and we are a little closer now but my life is horrible knowing I can't have him right now and I can't get over him it's too hard. so what do I do?

Absolutely nothing there's nothing you can do, imagine you were his girlfriend and the roles were switched how would you feel if you found out. He knows how you feel and if he feels that he sould rather be with you he will make the choice but there's nothing you can do. You will destroy this girl if you do react on it. How would you like to know that your relationship would be based on you knowing he can cheat on his girlfriend....
Your time will come my Girl.

Hang in there

there are so many people out there that will love you. you dont need him. you will see that once you ignore him he is going to come to you.

I know exactly how you feel. I feel the same way. I love this guy and I mean LOVE. but he has a girlfriend, but I know that he likes me 2. a lot of the time I wish that we could be together, but then I think about her. if you and the guy you like, (or me and my guy), are meant 4 each other then I think it will happen. just live for today, I think that's the best advice! =D

I am in the SAME situation as you are. In fact, I was typing in things like "my crush has a girlfriend" and other related words in Google, and this page popped up.

Well, I can't help much, since I'm still obviously trying to find myself, wondering if I should continue pursuing this guy or let go, and stay as friends.

I read your second-to-last sentence, and it just got me stuck. You said that he'd date you if he and his girlfriend weren't together. That just sounds like he's the type to treat you like a mere substitute. If he does break up with his girlfriend and gets with you, sure, that's great. But think about it - it's like he's saying you're the rebound. Who knows, if another girl that claims she likes him comes along, YOU could be the next ex-girlfriend. The way you quoted him makes him sound like a non-committed type (if he's committed to his current girlfriend, he wouldn't say something like that to you, even if he's lying, trying to be nice).

There's nothing else to explain, but if you still love the guy, just wait and see. You don't NEED to get over him. If he breaks up with his current girlfriend, go for it. Just make sure he's a worth-while guy. Otherwise, be friends.

Always remember - if you and your crush truly love each other, you guys don't have to be officially LABLED (as I call it) boyfriend/girlfriend. No one needs to be married to love each other. In fact, I think it's a lot easier if there's obvious chemistry, but no OFFICIAL title.

Sorry I talk a lot, but I hope that makes sense and helps.

ughh. I am in the same situation! except his new girlfriend his totally goth. he broke up with her for me and now they're back together, and its a sucky feeling. everyone tells me to move one and get over that jerk. but I know in my gut that I should hold on and wait for a little and everything will work out for what it's supposed to be!
that's my advice :] <3333

something like this happened to me.
The guy has a long term girlfriend and I'm getting out of a long term relationship. However, everytime we see eachother we can't keep our hands off eachother and end up doing something stupid we feel guilty about later. I know he wants me but I also know he loves his girlfriend. So I decided to see what happens. Do not sit around waiting for him or your life will pass you by. Go out there girl and experience life and eventually you'll stop thinking about it as much. good luck!

ME TOO!
its this guy from my work. when we started working together we became friends really quickly and we were really flirty and stuff, I had a crush on him right away, and I felt like he had a crush on me too, but at that time I was in a serious relationship and I was crazy about my boyfriend. I knew I should tell him that I had a boyfriend so he wouldnt get any ideas, but something always held me back. then one day he told me about this girl he started dating. I was surprisingly dissapointed. this was around the same time that my almost two year relationship was failing, I was heartbroken over it for a long time after. but as my feelings for my ex faded away so did my feelings from this guy I work with get stronger. we're still good frineds and we talk about everything, but he still has no clue about how I feel. any time he mensions his girlfriend I get so dissapointed. and to make things more complicated, one of his good friends has a crush on me.
im so head over heels for this guy, im almost consumed by it, I even had a few dreams about him where he told me he feels the same, then I wake up and get so sad that it was just a dream.
hes adorable, hes from poland, hes tall, red hair, blue eyes, plays soccer, snowboards, plays piano, skateboards, hes a really good student, gets along with everyone, hes such a good friend. I dont know whether or not to tell him or not, im worried it would make it awkward between us.
hes so happy with this girl but im hoping against hope that they break up, and I realize how selfish that is but I cant help it. its not just infatuation, because I know him, and I like him for him. hes one of a kind
my plan is to wait. we're only 17, things change. thats what I keep telling myself. situations change, the chances of them staying together for a long time are slim. I thought I was going to marry the guy I was dating before, and now I think back at that and laugh.
well, it felt really good to get that off my chest, I never told anyone.
my advice to you is, hang in there.
thing are going to turn around, dont worry.
sooner or later, your crush is either going to realize he has a crush on you too and cant lie to himself, or you're going to find somebody even better, who's going to feel the same way about you that you feel about them.
I know its hard, im in the same exact predicament but your life is about you and not him, or you and him, if that makes sence. you can live without him.
something else I found out; crushes are technically an emotional attachment, a chemical balance thingy in your brain, and as soon as you feel rejection from the person you are attracted to, your brain sends a signal to break down the chemical bond that makes you attracted to the person. I thought that was pretty cool.
so there you go, as soon as you admit to yourself that he doesnt feel the same way about you, you start getting over him.
I wish you the best of luck, though.
I hope everything works out the way its supposed to, and im positive that it will