Should I give him my virginity?

ok so I go out with this boy and we really like each other even though we havent been going out more than a month and theres this other boy that I like but in different ways like he does things that josh(my boyfriend) would never do but I like it because hes rebellious and I like josh because hes sweet and romantic and my parents would probably like him if they knew I date ,which they dont .

but anyway , a month ago brandon(the rebllious 1 ) said he thinks we should be friends-with-benifits which means we can be just friends but have sex and I wasnt dating josh the tiome so I said ok .then we lost contact and I kinda forgot him and I started to talk with josh and before I knew it we were going out . then brandon and I started talkin again and he said we should start having sex(he really didnt say it but thats what he meant) and he is so convincing that I fell for it even though we didnt do it yet

sooo I feel like I would be betraying josh by giving him my virginity but not giving him my virginity would be wrong too because I knew him longer . wouldnt it

please help me people

omg my firend has the exact same problem that its freaky! with those exact same names too, josh and brandon. anyways, just think about who you like more, whose been there wenever you needed them and stuff like that. but if you cant decide who to lose your virginity to then your probabaly not ready to lose it yet

You're thirteen. Stay cool and don't have sex until you know what you're doing.

ok listen here.
you have a BOYFRIEND and that guy is going to use you. what is wrong with you. have sex with your boyfriend. he will become more of a rebel. and your 13 you shouldn't even do that stuff till your at least older.

BABE 13 IS TOO YOUNG YOU NEED A LITTLE MORE TIME TO KNOW WHAT A SERIOUS STEP THIS IS

JUST WAIT

Not yet.

I say don't do it, and here's why. the guy just wants in your pants. once he gets his prize, he will either dump you and move on, tell his friends so they can all get a piece of you, or just use you to get his rocks off. any way, it's a bad deal for you, you will get a bad view of guys and sex, and end up regretting it.

Bad idea. He's using you to get in your pants. I was 13 once too and thats all guys want at that age. Wait until your in love I wish I would have.

You're too young for sex, and waaay too young to be a 'friend w/ benefits'

Um, a litlle complicated. But why do you feel the need to have sex with either one of them? You've only been dating Josh for a month? I'm 21 and I dated my boyfriend for 6 1/2 years before we had sex. Honestly the fact that you are even having to ask this question just goes to show that you are not mature enough mentally to even be worried about sex right now. Trust me, you don't want to make a reputation for yourself at such a young age. I can give you plenty of reasons why you should wait. I say give it a couple of years before you engage in adult activities.

Agreed. Far too young for any kind of sexual activities. Also, friends with benefits will STAB YOU IN THE BACK when you're in a real relationship with someone many years from now. Plus, it's unsafe. It's disrespectful. It's just pointless and a BAD idea.

Be a normal 13 year old who stays out of trouble, please.

You don't owe your virginity to anyone.

ok look I dont think that you should do it I know you dont know me btu plzs dont do it bc after you doit your going to feel really stupid like you could have wait thats what happen to me your first time should be special and wit some one you deeply love and know there going to be there for you if anything goes wrong like you getting pregnant

honey, you are way too young for sex you are 13 years old! live a little more. Also friends with benifits sucks don't do it! Someone always ends up getting hurt!! Good luck hope you make the right choice!

you're a young girl. if you're confused about TWO guys, then no, you don't need to give one your virginity. if you've been with him for less than a month, don't give him your virginity, or the other guy either. if you're that young, don't give anyone your virginity. if you have to come ask people you don't even know if we think you should lose your virginity, then apparently, you aren't ready to lose your virginity.

ok. im 13. and, just 4 da record, bbygirl12187, we do NOT always think about sex with girls. we like sports 2. Anywayz, im and the same situation. I would say just 2 do what your gut says. but if you dont feel cumfortable with that, go with your heart.

If you're going to give away your virginity with someone who just wants to have sex with you (that being the one who asked to be friends with benifits) you're gone regret it when you're older. You don't just go about and have sex when som1 you know ask you to. I mean, you like both of them, but only one likes you back (Josh)
If brandon had any kind of feelings what so ever for you, he wouldn't just want to be friends with benifits, he would've told you he liked you or something. So yeah, I think you're better off with josh.. but it's your life, and in the end, it's your desicion
hope you know what you're doing and tc :P

no

no way im a 14 year old boy and I think thats slutish and unatractive just wait :}
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no way im a 14 year old boy and I think thats slutish and unatractive just wait :}
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