How can I get my boyfriend's parents to like me?

I have been going out with my Boyfriend for a little over a year. I dont have much of a Family so my Boyfriend supports me A LOT. We are totally in love with each other. There is one thing that concerns me though His parents DO NOT like me. If I want to get away just for the weekend or even a day. like go to the beach or the mountains his parent imediately respond. "you kids cant do that your not Married." "married people take trips not adolecents". I hate it. If I go over to his house his Parents give me wierd looks and make rude comments I have done nothing to disrespect them in any way. I just had my birthday recently and we had planned for 3 months to go to the san diego zoo. Are plas changed and it didn't happen I was really upset cause I wanted to go soo bad. When we told his parents they were like It wasn't going to happen any ways you guys are not married. AGGGHHH I wanted to punch them and run away and cry. His birthday came up recently and his parents were planning on taking him and a bunch of his buddies to the dunes. So I took the weekend off of work to go to. They ended up not going Because they were going to go to AZ to visit his family instead. I had 5 days off my roomates were out of town everyone I knew was no where to be found that weekend So I asked If I can go with them to AZ since I already took the days off. They said NO its a Family thing maybe another time. I am so frustrated. My boyfriend is my family he is all I have we support each other in everything to do. and his parents dont get it. to topit all off when we asked why I couldn't go they were like... Well she cant just because... Then they mentioned Finding a condom wraper in his shorts. But seriously what the big surprise we are 2 19 year olds and we have been going out for over a year! His Family has serious communication issuse they have trouble being open with eachother and I am a very open person but every time I try to talk with them they shut me out. Just to clarify they are a Hard Core democratic Mexican family speak spanish dance foloric and everything. I am Republican Half Mexican Half white. ... So my conclusions is that they hate me Because a WHITE girl took their Sons VIRGINITY! So what am I sopose to do?!?!?

Do you talk to your boyfriend about this? if not I think you need to do so, because if something like this bothers you so much and he loves you he would have no problem going straight to his parents and tell them off. If my parrents treated my boyfriend like that I would tell them listen I know your are looking out for my best interest but I love so and so and we are going to be together no matter what, so cut the bullsh*t that you are doing and if you love and respect me you will expect and be nice to my boyfriend. Good luck hun!

I understand were you are coming from-

Understand that his parents have a right to be protective. But thats about it. As long as you are not disrespecting his parents, then you havent done anything wrong. The best thing to do is try to get to know them more and spend more time with them. As much as they dont like you, make them like you. They may think that you and your boyfriend are not serious about eachother and you just a girl in his life that will come and go. Show them that you love their son. Show them that you want some type of relationship with them. The more you try to push yourself in their lives the more they will be more willing to let them in. Try to go out of you way to do things for the family or talk to them more then you usually do. I know that its hard to do that sometimes but it will work out to your advantage.

Communicate to your boyfriend about how it is making you feel. If he knows what is going on then he wil be more willing to help find some kind of solution, or even talk to his family about accepting you into their lives.

Despite their communication issues-keep trying. Dont give up on them. If they see you are presistant, they will see that you care.

Just be yourself! I wouldn't worry about if they liked me or not. As long as I know I'm a good person and treat their son right and give them respect as well. Their ain't nothen you could do either they learn to like you or they won't