How can I handle my boyfriend being in jail?

ok heres the deal...my boyfriend is in jail, he's only been in there for a few weeks and that is horrible enough...but the thing is that my family doesn't approve of him or our relationship and before he got arrested we were havin' to keep our relationship secret...well now everything is out in the open and my mom is not lettin' me write him or get calls from him...when I do get calls from him its when my 'rents are gone or he can get someone to three way my cell from outside the prision...we don't know how long he is going' to be in there and I know I will be by his side the whole time but I don't know what to do about my family...on top of everything I might be pregnant with his kid...my 'rents are going' balstic...mostly cuase of our age difference and cuase im 16...and I know a lot of ya'll are going' to say I am to young to be carin' about any of this but my life has been so much hell that he is my only outlet...I think I am really about to go crazy...I know he loves me and I love him with all my heart and he has asked me to marry him and I said yes but with him being in prision everything is just been so tough...and with my family not approvin' and all I really and going' to go insane...I don't know what to do...I just need someone to talk to or some advice or something.

nah dont listen to them.. if you love him then why should you leave him. I think it all depends on why he's locked up in the first place. if its sumthin like murder or beatin a woman then f*ck him and keep it movin but if its sum peddy sh*t stay by his side. you are really young tho, just make sure you dont get carried away and end up giving him tons of money.. because canteen and phone defiently add up. just be careful and its all up to you, dont let anyone tell you what 2 do go wit ure heart. I held my man down for 2 whole years and it sucked but I loved him and I did what I thought was right.

Dump him. Honestly. If he's in JAIL that should tell you something right there...

People don't change and I know you don't want to hear that.

People tell you to give them chances, they don't change...and I'm sorry.