My boyfriends flirting

he is always talking to his neighbor when I am not around but someone will tell about it I cofronted him and he says that I am jelous and that the neighbor knows it she never talks to him he always talks to her I have told him its not right he says he would never be unfaithful to me I see her a lot because we are all neihgbors she turns her head when I look at her I dont trust what he is telling me but I have been hurt many times like this and get that feeling that its not right what should I do about this?

Teesa, it is very hard to give advise without knowing all the background.

But here is what struck me in your post. For whatever reason you feel insecure about your guy talking to the neighbor lady. Right? You've told him this and he turns it around to you being jealous.

Tell him it DOES make you uncomfortable, right now. It hurts you. Don't let him turn it around to the 'you don't trust me or you are jealous. Tell him, that you are just being bone-bare honest - that it hurts you right now.

And if he can continue doing the behavior that you have told him hurts you---what does that say about him? About his priorities? Then you have to ask yourself if you want to be someone who hurts you purposely. If you do, he'll continue to do that--and for as long as you let him.

He needs to inconvenience himself for you right now.

Blessings and good luck

it sounds like your boyfriend is going on a fishing expidition, fishing around to see what he could catch. you better hope he doesn't catch something.