Should I let my boyfriend finger me?

my boyfriend wants to finger me and im really self concious. I would like to do this with him but im kinda nervous. we're both virgins and im scared about my body. what should I do and how does it happen.

I've been fingered before.
Its not that bad.
It doesnt hurt.
It feels pretty good.
if your self concious,Dont take your pants off.
Make him do it wiht his hands down your pants.
Or with a blanket over it.

Being scared and self conscious about your body is a BIG indication hun, that you are NOT ready. Never force yourself to do something that you are not 100% sure of!! Never do anything just because HE wants to do it to you! Trust me...its perfectly ok to say no!

It is perfectly ok to say no... but obviously you don't wantto or you wouldnt be asking us for our opinions RIGHT!!!... Your not being self concious your just inexperienced in how to react to this sort of thing. If you feel you have the self control to not let it go any further (which is what I think your real fear is) then go ahead and experament when your ready however if you dont have self control you may want to hold of a bit longer until your completely ready to accept what may follow your seemingly innocent and playful experaments with him.

You know, once you have to let a boy to touch your private...When? This depends on your s*x-drive.

Well that's not really a question, that's more like its your desision.. If you don't want to do it, then tell him, if he really loved u, he'll understandd.

no

yea if you want to but if he is pressuring you dont

I was self concious the first time too but if he just puts his hand down your pants, and youre shaved , the self conciousness will go away because youre in the mood and hes not going to see anything, what are you afraid of that hell think of you if he fingers you

he obviously wants to do it

all you need to do is have him turn you on by kissing you any or talking to you or even felling you up then you need to make sure you are not super dry or it will be a litte hard for him then ounce you are turned one have hin stick ONE FINGER in for the frist few strokes he needs to go light then he can move on to one or more fingers dont have him get to rough unless you like that be careful a if you dont like what he is doing then have him stop and move on to somthing different it really dose not hurt so just try to turn your self on or have him do it then just go from slow to faster that is wha I do and it feels preety good