Should i let my boyfriend finger me?

my boyfriend wants to finger me and im really self concious. I would like to do this with him but im kinda nervous. we're both virgins and im scared about my body. what should I do and how does it happen.

I've been fingered before.
Its not that bad.
It doesnt hurt.
It feels pretty good.
if your self concious,Dont take your pants off.
Make him do it wiht his hands down your pants.
Or with a blanket over it.

Being scared and self conscious about your body is a BIG indication hun, that you are NOT ready. Never force yourself to do something that you are not 100% sure of!! Never do anything just because HE wants to do it to you! Trust me...its perfectly ok to say no!

It is perfectly ok to say no... but obviously you don't wantto or you wouldnt be asking us for our opinions RIGHT!!!... Your not being self concious your just inexperienced in how to react to this sort of thing. If you feel you have the self control to not let it go any further (which is what I think your real fear is) then go ahead and experament when your ready however if you dont have self control you may want to hold of a bit longer until your completely ready to accept what may follow your seemingly innocent and playful experaments with him.

You know, once you have to let a boy to touch your private...When? This depends on your s*x-drive.

Well that's not really a question, that's more like its your desision.. If u don't wanna do it, then tell him, if he really loved u, he'll understandd.

no

yea if u want to but if he is pressuring u dont

i was self concious the first time too but if he just puts his hand down your pants, and youre shaved , the self conciousness will go away because youre in the mood and hes not going to see anything, what are you afraid of that hell think of you if he fingers you

he obviously wants to do it

all you need to do is have him turn u on by kissing you any or talking to you or even felling you up then u need to make sure you are not super dry or it will be a litte hard for him then ounce you are turned one have hin stick ONE FINGER in for the frist few strokes he needs to go light then he can move on to one or more fingers dont have him get to rough unless u like that be careful a if u dont like what he is doing then have him stop and move on to somthing different it really dose not hurt so just try to turn your self on or have him do it then just go from slow to faster that is wha i do and it feels preety good

well, I understand where you're coming from
but even if you have your doubts about your body
if your boyfriend loves you
he'll lovey our body as it is

if you want him to then go for it dont be all scared or anything just go with the flow who knows you might like it

well my boyfriend and I were making out the other day and we were both really tuned on and in our underwear ( I could actually feel his dick rubbing against me through our pants) and he started to slide his hand dawn to my waist and he felt me getting nervous so he asked me whether or not I was ready and I said yes. Then he rubbed my vagina for a while through my pants ( it felt really nice and it made me really horny) whilst we made out. After that he stopped kissing me, sat up and tried to slide my pants off but I stopped him because I was too self conscious and he didn't try to go further and we just kept making out although I could see he was still really horny.

if you want too why not?and if he says he loves you than he can wait when you are ready for it but if you asking this question you totally ready for it in my opinion well good luck with it.

I had da same situation as you im 19 and was un sure about what was that I felt like I was leading him to have sex ...one day he try putting down my pants and I stop him I was scared I stay quite for a long time ..it feels good dow knoe iknoe that its not bad to do it