My boyfriend wants me to make things more challenging for him.

We have been together three months the second time around. the first time we were together for about 2 and a half years. we had a very rocky relationship the first time but this time has been completely different since a year and a half went by between...

us being together. everything has been really great except he says that he feels like I dont make it challenging enough. he really has it perfect, he never goes without anything. I mean we have great sex so whenever he initiates it, I am all for it. and even if I just send him a good morning text or whatever, he says he thinks about me less because im so available, yet we live 165 miles apart!!! I love him and im willing to stick by him through the next few years while he goes back to school and everything, but I just dont know what to do in order to make things more challenging especially when it doesnt feel like we are even a couple when I do not call him or text him. what do I do?

Sounds to me like there may be something missing from the relationship.
Either that, or he may not be interested in you as much as he was.
Guys like the 'thrill of the chase' and he may feel that the spark of the relationship is gone.
Which is totally normal after you've known eachother and been together for so long.
You just straight up need to ask him what you can do.
And if he doesn't tell you or let you know, then he may just be ready to move on.
Hope that helps!

I think he just wants to be teased a bit. He wants you to provocative and hint about things rather than just rip of your clothes and be standing naked in the doorway. He wants to seduce you and work for it. This is a good thing...

It's difficult if he's not there. You will have to be extra creative. Contact him more and leave him more sexy little notes. tell him about new little outfits you;ve bought... stockings, high heel shoes... get him ready and going crazy for the next time you meet.