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My boyfriend want to have sex with me, but i dont really want to

Me Asked by dezzi about 1 year ago, 6 answers.

Can somebody please help me!
My boyfriend says he want to have sex, but I dont really want too! So I told him I would have sex with him!
What should I do?and say?
Im to scared!!! Sex is scary!!! How do it feel?

me at the beach :) Answered by loulou11 on Aug 26, 2008, 04:30PM
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First if you don't want to DON'T do it!!
it's not just something you do because someone else wants to
you're still young you shouldn't be worrying about this yet
tell him you're not ready and if he's a good boyfriend
he'll wait until you're ready. and if he leaves you for it
you don't want that kind of guy in your life at all.
wait for that right person to come and when you know that
you are ready.

my dog is cute. Answered by tinatodder4 on Aug 26, 2008, 04:37PM
2637 answers

first of all you're like 13 years old. sorry to say but your boyfriend is a horndog. who cares if he says he wants to sex. it takes two to tango, and if you don't want to have sex then don't. if you're scared that he'll leave you because you won't lay down with him, then that just goes to show how much he really cared about you to begin with. don't let him pressure you into doing something that you will regret. if he really loved you, he would wait until you are completely ready.

Cocoa2 Answered by yorkshireterrier1 on Aug 26, 2008, 04:42PM
124 answers

Don't do it tell him your period came on.

black and white Answered by kattie8451 on Aug 26, 2008, 05:32PM
612 answers

dont do it... tell him you arent ready and you want to wait if he doesnt accept it he is not worth it and he doesnt love you or enough to have sex with you... hope I helped and need further advice fun mail me

iceskate Answered by livelaughlove123 on Aug 26, 2008, 05:49PM
342 answers

I know how you feel im 13 and have a similar sitation.

I know how it is to have one part of you that wants it and another part that knows its wrong.

DONT DO IT !!!

he will dump you and you will regret it. got forbid you get prego

me Answered by shadowboxer on Aug 26, 2008, 07:44PM
82 answers

I agree with all of them. And as for how it feels, when I lost my virginity it hurt like hell and I wanted to cry. I still cringe a bit when I think of it and it was forever ago. I not only hurt that night but my stomach hurt for weeks after that. Tell him you aren't ready for it and if he loves you he'll wait. If he doesn't love you he'll leave you and what would you get from someone who doesn't love you anyway? You'd get sex that you won't even enjoy. Oh goodie, we all totally want that. If he leaves you or pressures you into it he isn't worth your time at all.

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