My boyfriend of 2years is giving me mix signals...what to do next??

ok..I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years, and even though we've had our ups and downs, recently there's been way more downs then ups. Also, he doesnt seem to care if he sees me anymore, he recently started working at his old high school as a coach and he's only 19!! a lot of girls like him, and I dont know what to think. He acts different when he's there, I could never go to his practices at that school. And his sleeping patterens have drasticly changed as well. I caught him in a couple lies so far, and not little ones,the last one, was he said he was going home and he hung up because he said he was tired and he went to his friends house and stayed there all nite and he didnt tell me that, my friend who was there told me 2 days later!!!! Im gettin tired of all this drama, and I want to be happy but I feel like I cant see myself without him. I want to move on but I feel like itll be too hard to cope.What do I do??

Your situation sounds all too familiar. Although some of the details are different, I've been in the same boat as you and I made it just fine. The most important thing to realize here, and this is going to sound really preachy and corny, but this is your life, and life is short. Why waste any more time on a guy that doesn't treat you the way you want. Dont try to convince yourself the way I used to do that he is the perfect guy because you want him to be. Of course it's much easier to stay in the relationship because you're emotionally attached to him, but do you really want to spend the rest of your life in a relationship where you have to question stuff like where he's been or what he's been doing? All that drama wears you down, and eventually it's going to get to a point where it just isn't worth it anymore. How to cope? Cry your eyes out. Let yourself mourn the loss. And then be incredibly happy that you can find somebody who makes you cry tears of happiness, and not tears of frustration or sadness.

Hope this helps..

Mel